WorkinProcess Report post Posted September 24, 2013 (edited) Some things that anyone having surgery needs to remember: This is major surgery - its going to hurt, and you are going to feel like crap. It gets better. No one gives awards for not taking your pain medications. There are no get out of jail free cards for people that "stand the pain stoically" If it hurts, take the meds. Follow the guidelines for your diet recommendations. If you are supposed to have liquid for the first week, that doesn't mean pizza in a blender. Put on your big girl/boy pants and drink the protein drinks and water. No amount of whining replaces the nutrition you need from protein and the hydration you need from water. A trip to the E.R is not a fun replacement. Stay off the scales the first couple of weeks - your body has been through the blender, and no matter how much you think you Should have lost, its going to take a while. Don't compare your loss to the losses of others. You will lose at the rate that is right for you - all comparison shopping does is upset you. There's always going to be someone that claims they lost 25# a week -- maybe they did, maybe they didn't. Its like comparing salaries at work - you wont get a raise just because Jim makes more than you do - you'll just get po'd about it. Once you get to the point you are feeling better - Exercise. You don't have to LIKE it - you just have to DO it. Stick with your nutritional guidelines - yes I said that in #3 but it bears repeating. Just because you are bored with soft foods doesn't mean you go out and have chips and dip and burritos. If it hurts, STOP eating. It doesn't matter if its a teaspoon or a cup - nothing good will come of going past your comfort level. HANG IN THERE.... this works.... just give it time.... Edited September 26, 2013 by MJreadyforaChange 174 athenarose, Forward to Health, JennMonterrozo and 171 others reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Amy2.0 Report post Posted September 24, 2013 I love this, MJ!! #2 is very well put! I have never been one to try to power through the pain! I pushed that little button up until just before they took it away and I proceeded to ask for my pain meds right on schedule. These are all great tips. Thanks for posting! 3 Gidget, Mirtl and Becca52 reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Becca52 Report post Posted September 24, 2013 Love it!! 1 CherryBombCutie reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Carrie2.0 Report post Posted September 24, 2013 I learned the hard way that you should take your pain meds everytime you are due for them. I had 2 c-sections; after the first one I wanted to be Super Mom and tough it out since I didn't have the experience of a "normal" delivery. Wow!! Bad idea, took me forever to heal from that one. Baby #2 I was using the PCA pump as much as it would let me and then pain meds around the clock. I recovered so much faster after baby #2, I was up and walking the next day, packing my stuff so I could go home and enjoying my new bundle of joy. Take the drugs, it will get you moving faster and that helps you heal faster. 3 kimmie1223, kmamaward and Natybug98 reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Molly January Report post Posted September 24, 2013 You tell it like it is! This is not surgery for wimps; it is not the easy way out. I would also add: Follow your vitamin regimen. And I would also add: Do not expect to be perfect with vitamins, protein, and fluid right our of the gate. You have been through major surgery and all systems need to recover. 3 Steph2015, Raddy and Cue reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
WorkinProcess Report post Posted September 24, 2013 You guys are right, NO ONE is ever perfect at this -- but we have to TRY..... 1 Time2Live reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Sha Report post Posted September 24, 2013 I love this! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Iamjustamom Report post Posted September 24, 2013 good reminders!! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Dees Report post Posted September 24, 2013 Good list. Well put. I would add, learn to love yourself. Because the loss isn't going to come overnight, and you're going to have some awkward transitional stages. At the end of this, if you don't love and accept yourself, it's not going to help any eating problems. So forgive yourself if you make a mistake, and learn that it's OKAY to be human and make those mistakes. Can't beat yourself up--it's a learning process! 27 monikers, Ficklemom, Caseys and 24 others reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Waitingonme Report post Posted September 24, 2013 Awesome! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
TurnThePage Report post Posted September 25, 2013 Bravo! This should become a placard at the top of the website. I've been surprised by the ignorance and lack of common sense expressed in many of the posts. I don't understand how those people could undertake this surgery and major life change without better informing themselves and asking questions of the professional staff at the surgery center. If you have a problem with your prescription meds, why on earth would you ask anonymous people with no medical training on a forum for medical advice and tinker with your medication yourself instead of calling your doctor's office??? If you are bleeding from unexpected places, why go online instead of to the emergency room??? Makes me crazy! 10 GrannyHomeJames, Ficklemom, CeCeJD and 7 others reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
fflintstone Report post Posted September 25, 2013 Bravo! This should become a placard at the top of the website. I've been surprised by the ignorance and lack of common sense expressed in many of the posts. I don't understand how those people could undertake this surgery and major life change without better informing themselves and asking questions of the professional staff at the surgery center. If you have a problem with your prescription meds, why on earth would you ask anonymous people with no medical training on a forum for medical advice and tinker with your medication yourself instead of calling your doctor's office??? If you are bleeding from unexpected places, why go online instead of to the emergency room??? Makes me crazy! For the most part I agree with your first paragraph. People should be informed and do much research, they should ask questions. Unfortunately very few of the presenters at the initial weight loss seminar have actually HAD the surgery. I got my info both from professionals and people who have been thru it. I am not the only person that commented that the seminar was a lot like an old time revival coming into town and setting up a show to sell snake oil. The bottom line is this surgery is an ELECTIVE low risk surgery that is a huge money maker for hospitals and surgical staff. The seminar is a sales pitch. The second paragraph though operates under an erroneous assumption that DRs know everything and or always have your best interests at heart. This is not true. They do a job like you and me and some of them are as piss poor at their job as someone you may know at your place of employment. While there a few bad people out there that spew false info for fun, the majority of the people here have been through and or going to go thru surgery to change a lifelong habit. We ALL got FAT by eating too much PERIOD. If doctors truly had MY best interest at heart. They would have noticed my bradycardia and would have not performed the surgery until it was straightened out. I like to get both perspectives and make my own logical decision. I also like to learn what the right questions to ask are. I have found that a GOOD doctor will tell you much more if you speak with them from a good base of knowledge on your condition, than some schmoe that doesn’t know what is wrong with themselves. 18 Lexuskela, Raddy, Natybug98 and 15 others reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
sleuth Report post Posted September 25, 2013 One thing I was surprised about was my lack of "internal" pain. Aside from the gas for the first 2-3 days (which was excruciating for the 1st 2 days!!!) I felt no internal pain. I would have thought I'd have pain in my stomach and maybe a bruised liver, but there was no pain. The incisions stung a little, but after the gas pain subsided, there was nothing else. I guess there's not a lot of pain receptors around the stomach. 7 Ficklemom, jessnchris61204, Raddy and 4 others reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Krazyladya Report post Posted September 26, 2013 Love it. Gana make my husband read it too so he can help push me Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Coh73 Report post Posted September 26, 2013 Fastantic list! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Xeniak Report post Posted September 26, 2013 lol @ If you are supposed to have liquid for the first week, that doesn't mean pizza in a blender. 7 PrettyLittleLoser, shmooshy, klm43 and 4 others reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
BarbinTx Report post Posted September 26, 2013 What a great post! Very good advice! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Happy-Camper Report post Posted September 26, 2013 lol @ If you are supposed to have liquid for the first week, that doesn't mean pizza in a blender. pizza in a blender is strictly for pureed food. bwaahahaaa... but add a chocolate protein shake! ...and maybe a Prilosec. 12 Julie_T, Ficklemom, cubana66 and 9 others reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
KarensThin Report post Posted September 26, 2013 A big AMEN sister!!!! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
autumnschulz Report post Posted September 26, 2013 So funny you said that MJ, pizza in a blender...there was a guy in my nutrition class yesterday who asked if he can put pizza in a blender or a McDonald's hamburger during pureed stage. Yikes! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Xeniak Report post Posted September 26, 2013 So funny you said that MJ, pizza in a blender...there was a guy in my nutrition class yesterday who asked if he can put pizza in a blender or a McDonald's hamburger during pureed stage. Yikes! lol seriously? I saw it as a joke but i guess people are that slow 2 Cindypraying and Time2Live reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Natybug98 Report post Posted September 26, 2013 lol seriously? I saw it as a joke but i guess people are that slow My nurse was kind of testing me when I got up to the floor and asked me if she could get me anything. I said thanks, but not allowed to have anything. She said that was awesome, she'd recently had a guy ask her for french fries. I said he had to be joking. She said "Nope!" They are out there. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
WorkinProcess Report post Posted September 26, 2013 Sadly, there are MANY people that think this IS the "easy way out" There seems to be the perception among some that if it doesn't make you sick it will somehow be OK to eat the same things that got you here in the first place. 2 Experiment 626 and Mikeical ( mike ) reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
technogal63 Report post Posted September 26, 2013 Great, great, great post! So much of what we all need to remember condensed down to its essence... bravo! 1 lilrosie reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
HorseCrazyMom Report post Posted September 26, 2013 Wow. Please tell me he was kidding. He is not ready for surgery. 3 Time2Live, Mikeical ( mike ) and Natybug98 reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
