Hello guys. I just wanna start by saying that I and my husband has been married for 5 years. During those time that we are married we've had a son. After giving birth I haven''t taken care of my body due to busyness in the past months my husband has been cold in bed with me. So I've decided to buy best post surgery garments brand to seduce my husband...but it didn't happen...now I'm wondering if he was just tired or occupied or if he has someone else already...I have started some exercises to lose some weight but it will still take months...what should I do?? Our son is still young I can't afford losing my husband now...should I consider the surgery?