I did follow up with my surgeon but I forgot to post his advice so here it is:
You are actually way ahead of expected weight loss at this stage post op, likely because you have been so diligent with your diet and exercise. I would not be concern with the amount your pouch can hold at this point. You are doing excellent! We can discuss more at you 6 month appointment.
I did ask about the barium swallow test @Kio too but he has no concern. The weight is falling off very fast still-5 pounds this week, but I am still very concerned about my brain vs food! I'm making an appointment with a psychologist that specializes in eating disorders. I'll follow up with how this appointment goes.