Hello everyone! My name is Fran and I am getting "sleeved" on 8/15/16.
Not sure how many of you out there have a similar story. Through various diets over a few years, I was able to take off 130 pounds. I swore up-and-down I would never get that heavy again. But unfortunately, not only did I gain back what I lost, I am even heavier now than I was at my heaviest before. So here I am turning to surgery for help. I feel like a failure. That being said, I don't look down on others who have bariatric surgery. It's just, I feel like a failure. But wait, if someone has a defected heart, surely they would seek out a way to get better. And maybe have heart surgery. How is that any different from having surgery to help me lose weight? Bah...whatever.
Anyway, my question is: is it fair of me to ask my husband to keep out the junk food that he wants? Like, why can't I control myself? I'm an addict...and I feel weak. He should be able to have the food he wants and not have to worry that I will mess up and eat it. So is it fair to ask him this?