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About katiethelovemalfoy

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  • Birthday 07/11/1992

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    anime, cosplay, harry potter, vocaloid, nerdiness, rain ,being healthy :D, hello kitty,the color pink, glitter, slytherin pride, korean dramas, kpop
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  • Surgeon
    Dr. Cohen
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  • Surgery Type
    Gastric Bypass

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  1. I haven't been on here in quite some time. I'm here to announce that I'm almost to my goal weight, that's after I've dipped under it and became malnourished. After my surgery I've always felt something was wrong, after two years of suffering June 23rd I almost lost my life due to a perforated ulcer my new surgeon said it was most likely due to my bypass not being right and my lovely PCP messing up even more. I've spent from the end of May this year til just yesterday in the hospital. After an emergency surgery on my ulcer, fighting pneumonia, severe pancreatitis, and an emergency surgery to take out my gallbladder.... I can say I regret getting surgery at all. I got this surgery because I was promised if I did as I was told I would live a healthy normal life!! I was deceived I'm sicker than I ever was because of it. I just turned 24 last month and I've lost everything, including the weight. So yeah I get compliments on being so skinny, but I can't work out, my diet is even stricter because of all the damage, I lost my job due to being sick all the time... Just wish I would've lost the weight on my own. Here's a warning to everyone that this isn't a magic spell, it can be a helpful tool, but I guess it's not for everyone. Be careful what surgeon you choose and if you feel something is wrong don't let anyone push you aside.
  2. This surgery has ruined my life... 

    1. Murk


      What happened? It sounded like you were doing so well in previous posts except for the sciatica... I hope whatever you are going through is temporary and you get through it soon! 

    2. katiethelovemalfoy


      I just posted something about it. Thank you for your kindness and support. Hope you're doing well 

  3. Hello everyone! In need of some advice. I have hit another plateau. Been fluxuation the same 3lbs for the past month. Also i fractured my coccyx and it is irritating my sciatic nerve VERY badly. Sitting,laying,walking, coughing, and even deep breaths hurt. I am currently in physical therapy to try and get this problem under control, but i am trying to hit Onederland by the first week of june ( roughly 32 lbs). Is it possible? Have any of you had this experience? Please give me your advice it is greatly appreciated. Im ready to have the BEST summer of my life, my body just isn't
  4. Hello everyone! Well you all were 100% RIGHT!! I took some pictures for him and he was overjoyed and i was praised and complimented. He doesn't seem worried about skin and such, though i told him i still have another 50/60 lbs to go so it won't look the same. He says it won't be too bad. I feel so much relief!!! Also he must have liked them or else he wouldn't decide to switch careers! Yup he isn't going to academy, he is switching up jobs to be able to have set hours so i won't have to wait up for him. So blessed. You guys were the BEST HELP EVER!!!! Thank you!
  5. katiethelovemalfoy

    A year later

    Right now!
  6. Thank you all so much for your kind words, support and advice. It means the world to me and I am overjoyed that I have people I can talk to that understand the struggles I am feeling. My bf has seen pics of me at my heaviest and tells me how proud he is of me for the loss. What I think I will do is send him some pictures ( nothing too revealing) while he is away. He is gone for 6 months for police academy. I am more comfortable showing him pics than wait til he comes home, especially since im hoping to be even smaller by his graduation. If he can accept me at this stage I don't think I'll worry! I'll tell you guys what happens! Thank you SO MUCH! <3
  7. Hi everyone! SO i haven't posted in a LONG TIME! Well here is what is happening! I am a bit over a year out of surgery (gastric bypass) and i have lost 110lbs so far. I am now malnourished and am working on fixing it. The big worry i have here right now is my skin!!!! It's starting to fall and i am horrified at what my boyfriend will think. A bit of a background on this relationship: It's new, he knows i used to weigh a LOT more and supports my weight loss decisions. We have yet to be intimate at all, he hasn't seen skin or scars. Even if people are the MOST supportive in the world, as my boyfriend is, i am terrified one day he will see my skin and leave. Anyone else have these fears? Confronted your loved ones about it? Had good or bad experiences? Let me know! Thanks Dolls! xoxo
  8. Hello Everyone, I saw my beloved surgeon today and he told me he believes i have an intestinal ulcer. I have medication for it to take for quite some time but he says that if i am not feeling better in about 2 weeks and the vomiting doesnt stop to come back so i can be scoped to see if i have a stricture, :/ So i will be enduring the meds and wishing for just the ulcer. i love my surgeon so much <3 Later Dolls, Katie xoxoxoxoxxo
  9. katiethelovemalfoy


    me at my highest weight, eating fast food every day ugh. It's painful to look at.
  10. Hey Everyone, I am having an issue, well i have been for a few weeks now. Every time i eat something it hurts, it feels like someone is sitting on my chest. It ends up hurting so bad i make myself vomit. Every day for like a said a few weeks i have been forcing my food up. Has anyone else experienced this or have a clue as to what is happening?? i am eating soft protein foods and still it hurts. Thanks Dolls, Katie xoxoxo
  11. Hey Everyone! So! I havent dated anyone since before i gained weight, i was 17 the last time i had a boyfriend, i am 21 now. I am going to meet a guy today and hope all goes well. He knows about my surgery, but doesnt know much about it. At least i was lucky enough to find someone who accepts it. It is a lot harder to find acceptance in the younger crowd and i know it. Anyone else find that they are getting more attention from guys/girls in a relationship sense or just from people in general. I get a lot of stares and i am always afraid of why! Share your feedback or stories! I would love to know! Thanks Dolls, Katie xoxoxoxo
  12. Hello Everyone, I am at the point where i am through with food ruining my life. I am stopping now. I know my family would like if i didnt eat. My mom would accept me the sooner i got thinner. I just want to be like all of the other pretty girls. I am just so angry i let myself get this way. The fat just showed up one day when i looked in the mirror.... Now i can't stand to look at myself. I became what i feared the most and my heart is just broken. I feel like this terror will never stop. I will have a constant reminder that i was fat. whether it be loose skin,scars, or the horrible pictures of me my family has. I hate when people congratulate me on losing weight. Don't praise me for fixing a mistake! And i am SICK of people saying "you have such a pretty face, i can't wait for you to hit your goal weight, you'll be so much better" my mom even said about 2 weeks out i dropped 18lbs and i had lost 40 prior to surgery...she heard me saying how to disgusting i thought i looked....she said "no it was disgusting before" so what does that mean? the whole years i was fat you called me beautiful just to shut me up when you really thought i was a gross pig?! All of my family have picked on me for being fat. My last conversation i had with my dad before he passed ( i havent seen him nine years prior) is how fat i have gottrn. How charming.... now he is dead and i will never forgive him for that. my biological mom started to hate me more when i started to gain weight and made me leave home at 17. i was on my own, i couldn't sell my body because i was so gross so i barely survived. So i see no good reason to eat. I just want to fit in. Can't anyone understand that?