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hollycerniglia · 11-02-2009, 10:46 AM

Some people piss me off so bad. Let me start from the beginning. My oldest daughter just came home from being in a group home for 7 mo. She was supposed to come home in July but she got into some trouble while there. So ended up telling one of the peers there that on one of her home visits to her dad's she got drunk. She said that her dad gave her permission to. The peer ended up telling staff so she got another 3 months added on. She refused to tell anyone who actually gave her the liquor because she said she would protect her family. Well her caseworker told her she couldn't visit him anymorewhile in state custody. The end of September was the local fair and she always goes to it with her dad. She talked the caseworker into letting her go. She had a great weekend. Well she ended up going back to his house 3 weeks ago. This was after she came home from the group home. She was very sick the whole weekend she was there and running a 103 degree temperature. She was supposed to come home on Sunday but her dad refused to bring her home until Monday. When I got her on Monday she was so sick and weak. Her dad said he didn't take her to the doctor because he didn't know what insurance she had and he didn't have the money to pay for it. She was on the state's insurance while in the group home and gets to keep it for a month after getting out. Well I didn't have a copy of her card because her caseworker had it. I took her to the ER because her doctor couldn't squeeze her in. All they had to do was put her social into the computer and her insurance info came up. Now why in the hell couldn't her father have done that? He would have known what insurance she had if he provided insurance like he is supposed to. Well she went back to his house this weekend and once again didn't have her home by the time she was supposed to be. She texted me 15 min. before she was supposed to be home and said that they just got thru horseback riding. They had a 1 1/2 hour drive to even get home. I am furious! He keeps defying my authority.
Sorry my message is so long. I just needed to talk to someone.

Laureate · 11-02-2009, 10:58 AM

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Originally Posted by hollycerniglia

Some people piss me off so bad. Let me start from the beginning. My oldest daughter just came home from being in a group home for 7 mo. She was supposed to come home in July but she got into some trouble while there. So ended up telling one of the peers there that on one of her home visits to her dad's she got drunk. She said that her dad gave her permission to. The peer ended up telling staff so she got another 3 months added on. She refused to tell anyone who actually gave her the liquor because she said she would protect her family. Well her caseworker told her she couldn't visit him anymorewhile in state custody. The end of September was the local fair and she always goes to it with her dad. She talked the caseworker into letting her go. She had a great weekend. Well she ended up going back to his house 3 weeks ago. This was after she came home from the group home. She was very sick the whole weekend she was there and running a 103 degree temperature. She was supposed to come home on Sunday but her dad refused to bring her home until Monday. When I got her on Monday she was so sick and weak. Her dad said he didn't take her to the doctor because he didn't know what insurance she had and he didn't have the money to pay for it. She was on the state's insurance while in the group home and gets to keep it for a month after getting out. Well I didn't have a copy of her card because her caseworker had it. I took her to the ER because her doctor couldn't squeeze her in. All they had to do was put her social into the computer and her insurance info came up. Now why in the hell couldn't her father have done that? He would have known what insurance she had if he provided insurance like he is supposed to. Well she went back to his house this weekend and once again didn't have her home by the time she was supposed to be. She texted me 15 min. before she was supposed to be home and said that they just got thru horseback riding. They had a 1 1/2 hour drive to even get home. I am furious! He keeps defying my authority.
Sorry my message is so long. I just needed to talk to someone.

Hnag in there, Holly. What a jerk. Sounds like he wants all of the fun, none of the responsibility!

Christi · 11-02-2009, 11:21 AM

Big Hugs to you. My husband is that way and we are still married. I can only imagine what it will be like when we are divorced and he has visitation.

Hang in there hun.