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AirForceW1fe · 10-31-2009, 01:28 PM

ROFL Cas! You are not dumb! It mean to bow down to someone like you would to royalty.

AirForceW1fe · 10-31-2009, 01:33 PM

"Meanwhile, I have counciled many couples and families in the ways of life and overcoming obstacles. Most of the time, the hardest thing to confront is the truth about ourselves. We hide behind blaming others for our misfortunes rather than reflecting the image of our own choices. "
And not even 2 minutes later, there you go again. I am not hiding behind anything. I do not blame anyone for my misfortunes. And the loss of my daughter had not a damn thing to do with CHOICE! Please don't assume for a minute that you know what you are talking about here.

This is not about how to handle things or therapy or anything along those lines. It's about not watering down people feelings good or bad into the puppies and rainbows you think it should be. Maybe sometimes it would just be best for you to say "I am sorry for you loss, I have been through it myself and can understand the pain" and leave it at that!

jerseygrl684 · 10-31-2009, 01:33 PM

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Originally Posted by Marella

Good gracious God, we are all so self-righteous here, aren't we? I'm not perfect, I'm typing... but you ladies certainly must be in line for sainthood.

I'm up next, you weren't made aware? You brought this up, no one else. Sorry, I don't like what I hear about me either.. welcome to the world outside the bubble.

Marella · 10-31-2009, 01:35 PM

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Originally Posted by AirForceW1fe

"Meanwhile, I have counciled many couples and families in the ways of life and overcoming obstacles. Most of the time, the hardest thing to confront is the truth about ourselves. We hide behind blaming others for our misfortunes rather than reflecting the image of our own choices. "
And not even 2 minutes later, there you go again. I am not hiding behind anything. I do not blame anyone for my misfortunes. And the loss of my daughter had not a damn thing to do with CHOICE! Please don't assume for a minute that you know what you are talking about here.

This is not about how to handle things or therapy or anything along those lines. It's about not watering down people feelings good or bad into the puppies and rainbows you think it should be. Maybe sometimes it would just be best for you to say "I am sorry for you loss, I have been through it myself and can understand the pain" and leave it at that!

Unfortunately, you don't want to interpret what I wrote correctly. You have chosen to demonize me, that's clear. Go ahead... do it some more. It certainly makes you feel better. Let me give you a smile.

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Originally Posted by jerseygrl684

I'm up next, you weren't made aware? You brought this up, no one else. Sorry, I don't like what I hear about me either.. welcome to the world outside the bubble.

Go ahead Kelly, smack me with your bully pies! How many will it be?

soon2bthin · 10-31-2009, 01:42 PM

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Originally Posted by AirForceW1fe

"Meanwhile, I have counciled many couples and families in the ways of life and overcoming obstacles. Most of the time, the hardest thing to confront is the truth about ourselves. We hide behind blaming others for our misfortunes rather than reflecting the image of our own choices. "
And not even 2 minutes later, there you go again. I am not hiding behind anything. I do not blame anyone for my misfortunes. And the loss of my daughter had not a damn thing to do with CHOICE! Please don't assume for a minute that you know what you are talking about here.

This is not about how to handle things or therapy or anything along those lines. It's about not watering down people feelings good or bad into the puppies and rainbows you think it should be. Maybe sometimes it would just be best for you to say "I am sorry for you loss, I have been through it myself and can understand the pain" and leave it at that!

I tend to agree with you here Suzanne. I think sometimes people get too wrapped up in the psychoanalyzing to simply say I understand what you are going through.

Using big words and a lot of them don't necessarily make one smart.

AirForceW1fe · 10-31-2009, 01:42 PM

Look, I have said my peace. You opened the can of worms and now don't like what you are hearing. If you did not want to hear it you should not have opened the thread.

It's not about demonizing you. It's about my own personal feelings that to me you tend to come across as demeaning. Take it for what it's worth. Opinions are like assholes, everyone has one. You don't have to agree with it, you don't have to like it and I don't have to defend it. I feel how I feel and that's it.

End of subject.

soon2bthin · 10-31-2009, 01:44 PM

Just curious Marella, but what makes Kelly a bully because she doesnt agree with you and chooses to have a sense of humor?

jerseygrl684 · 10-31-2009, 01:44 PM

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Originally Posted by Marella

Unfortunately, you don't want to interpret what I wrote correctly. You have chosen to demonize me, that's clear. Go ahead... do it some more. It certainly makes you feel better. Let me give you a smile.

Go ahead Kelly, smack me with your bully pies! How many will it be?

Is this really happening? You have officially gone off the deep end lady, I don't even think Jesus can save you now.

I'm laughing at the fact that you have completely gone haywire on something that no one would have seen or even brought up, had it not been for yourself.

I can't do pie, sorry my stomach can't handle that.

AirForceW1fe · 10-31-2009, 01:46 PM

Ultimately, that is what we are all here for. Others who understand how we feel, what we are going through, who will celebrate our victories and understand that sometimes we fall short.

If I wanted a lecture, I would call my mother. Here, I just want my friends that I have grown to love to say, it will be ok, or try this, it may help.

jerseygrl684 · 10-31-2009, 01:49 PM

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Originally Posted by AirForceW1fe

Ultimately, that is what we are all here for. Others who understand how we feel, what we are going through, who will celebrate our victories and understand that sometimes we fall short.

If I wanted a lecture, I would call my mother. Here, I just want my friends that I have grown to love to say, it will be ok, or try this, it may help.

Oh, I was told free food. I've been fooled for 2+ years?!