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Old 06-24-2009, 09:57 PM   #71 (permalink)
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Well ... it will be a mess!!

You want to kill your marriage in one swing - have an affair
You want to slowly choke it to death - criticise you partner a little every day

Multiply it by 8 kids and stupid reality show ...

I wouldn't want to be a single mother with 8 kids ... that would be just bad-bad-bad ....
I wouldn't want to Jon either - no job, everything you do is in a public eye ...
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Old 06-25-2009, 08:46 AM   #72 (permalink)
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Just heard today on some website that SHE actually filed for divorce to protect herself and the best of the children . . . hmmm . . . this will be very interesting.
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oops, best interest of the children . . .
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Old 06-25-2009, 09:22 AM   #74 (permalink)
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Did anyone watch the " actual show"
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they are in agreement that the house and all that money (3mil apx) is all for the KIDS! i hate hearing people speculate on child support and all that because the money from the show will be the child support! Kate will do fine with all her books and she is an RN she can always fall back on. Jon is a computer person and i'm sure he will be doing all kinds of stuff too (shoot maybe a "bachelor" type show LOL) and they both are educated so they'll be fine. Even the kids will be fine. Quit being so negative oh the kids this and the kids that. Shoot those kids are blessed to not be in a house where both parents are fighting like cats and dogs anymore and they have all the assistance in the world their blessed!
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where does it say she cheated on him????? I dont think so. He cheated on her! Thats what her Brother was talking about
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they are in agreement that the house and all that money (3mil apx) is all for the KIDS! i hate hearing people speculate on child support and all that because the money from the show will be the child support! Kate will do fine with all her books and she is an RN she can always fall back on. Jon is a computer person and i'm sure he will be doing all kinds of stuff too (shoot maybe a "bachelor" type show LOL) and they both are educated so they'll be fine. Even the kids will be fine. Quit being so negative oh the kids this and the kids that. Shoot those kids are blessed to not be in a house where both parents are fighting like cats and dogs anymore and they have all the assistance in the world their blessed!
I couldn't agree more. yeah it sucks at 1st for the kids but in the long run they are better off. No more listening to mom & dad fight all the time.
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They're doing no-fault. That means it doesn't matter who cheated on whom - they'll probably split everything 50-50. Also, since it was a "long term marriage" (10 years) he has to pay her alimony (in addition to child support) until she dies or remarries - unless he buys her out.
The divorce laws vary from state to state. Even in a "long term" marriage, alimony (in CA) is not a given. It's dependent upon income available for support and the requesting party's ability to be employed. Also, women are not the only parties to receive alimony. In my line of work, I have known of plenty of men who get spousal support.
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The divorce laws vary from state to state. Even in a "long term" marriage, alimony (in CA) is not a given. It's dependent upon income available for support and the requesting party's ability to be employed. Also, women are not the only parties to receive alimony. In my line of work, I have known of plenty of men who get spousal support.
ok, busted...I was talking out of my *ss based on people I have known in CA who got divorced. All >10 years marriage, all got alimony, even the lady who got screwed out of everything else.



PA is probably different.

But I'm not on her side or anything, Mike. I'm reading some hostility in your comments. I think if you read my previous comments I state very clearly that "I blame her." I'm sorry if you're mad at your ex or whatever, but don't take it out on all of us.

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