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Originally Posted by UndercoverDiva
The divorce laws vary from state to state. Even in a "long term" marriage, alimony (in CA) is not a given. It's dependent upon income available for support and the requesting party's ability to be employed. Also, women are not the only parties to receive alimony. In my line of work, I have known of plenty of men who get spousal support.
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ok, busted...I was talking out of my *ss based on people I have known in CA who got divorced. All >10 years marriage, all got alimony, even the lady who got screwed out of everything else.
PA is probably different.
But I'm not on her side or anything, Mike. I'm reading some hostility in your comments. I think if you read my previous comments I state very clearly that "I blame her." I'm sorry if you're mad at your ex or whatever, but don't take it out on all of us.
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