You two sound like you're set up to have lots of fun! This is generally my favorite holiday of the year, my favorite time of the year. This year, my health and depression have both hands around my neck, and just like a boa constrictor, every time I move, the squeeze gets tighter.

Sorry to be such a buzz kill, I'm just having a really hard time.
That said and done, today Michelle and Josh will be taking the car this morning and doing some 'secret shopping' and I will be doing cpr on my checkbook to see how many bills get paid this month. When they get back, we all will pile in the car and go to the 3 stores in town to buy their loss leader specials (to save money, ugh.) and get some food in the house (EBT in da house today). Tomorrow we hang in the pool, and then BBQ, drive to a place where we can see "works" and avoid a snail's pace drive home.
Saturday is my birthday. Most times too many friends are out of town to have a party, but in recent years, we have taken the RV out to campgrounds by the ocean and hung out, inviting friends to stop by for a cocktail, mocktail, and food and friendship (last year Lynda came by and we had a wonderful time hanging out!

). This year we can't even afford to do that, so we will be hanging out by the pool here. Daughter and SIL will be coming over to hang in the pool with us, then BBQing bovine-rendered protein disks.

Very low key, no real celebration.
I suppose I should just be glad that I didn't have to have another obstruction surgery, and that I am alive. I'm working on it. Depression sucks.