The not talked about subject... - Page 2 - ThinnerTimes

waterbottle · 10-01-2007, 11:46 PM

This is not really linked to this subject I guess .....

I was reading all these comments and thought I have had the band done and I will be safe then I thought OMG

My peter had been gone 11 years and I havent had sex since lol so maybe this will be the new OPENING for me

Sorry just had to express my thoughts on this as it has been the first time in 5 weeks I have had such a good giggle... (the dog is sat her watching me giggle thinking I have gone mad)

Poor little girl from the UK LOL

take care Dianne

Cat_Lover · 10-02-2007, 04:57 AM

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Originally Posted by LisaM

Nope, not looser, in fact, the opposite, probably because I'm in better physical shape than I've ever been in my life. Plus, being on top is not just possible now, it's fun.

On top is fun. No knee pain

and I can stay on top.

Hubby just lays back and takes it easy, with a smile on his face!

Cat_Lover

I told you, this is a very open forum!!!!!!

Alleusion · 10-02-2007, 11:51 AM

Okay, thanks to Cindy and her sausage down the hallway (omg I was trying to eat when I read that), I have to elaborate.

I had my surgery in October 05. My husband at the time was deployed. He came home 5 months later and wanted lots of sex. I really just wasn't in the mood. Yeah it felt better, but honestly, he just didn't know what he was doing, so the satisfaction still wasn't there. You'd think after 10 years, he'd have learned where to touch...but no. I digress.

Anyways, we divorced and I remarried. If anything, I'm much much tighter down there. For me, I'm tighter than I was before I ever had children (and I only pushed one of those out). This may change come April

janine · 10-02-2007, 01:34 PM

Well, For me my husbands been with me before and after childbirth.. I've popped out 3 kids. On was 9 lbs 10 1/2 oz. But he does say I'm looser than I once was. I'm also harder to please. So.. that's why the concern. Seams like the concences is that you either can't tell or your husband either doesn't care or won't kiss and tell. Well that's it on this subject I guess till I learn something different I'll let you all know.

Duckie · 10-02-2007, 06:01 PM

KEGELS baby KEGELS! Seriously though. I LOVE sex. I am unfortunately SINGLE! argh. I'm hornier than ever now and sex is LOTS OF FUN while thin. Do your kegels and it should help tighten you up. They are great DURING sex too. Drives them wild.

janine · 10-02-2007, 06:30 PM

Kegels... Tried and Tried.. what ever!..That really doesn't work!. must be a myth...

Hunnyblonde · 10-02-2007, 09:58 PM

Somewhere between the same and tighter...according to the DH. I'm still waiting for the sex drive to return to pre-op levels. Could have nothing to do with the wls, but it's just not there most of the time. I'm taking lots of fish oil in hopes that it will help.

UuUuLaLa · 10-11-2007, 11:25 PM

Haaaa!! no worries i have the problem for looseness resolved!! and no hot dog down the hallway at all.. its temporary but very effective.. go buy yourself a bottle of EVE douche you can use it to empty it out buy some Rosemary leaves boil them strain and put that in the EVE bottle douche yourself with that and OMG your hubby,lover,bootycall etc... will say damn she is tight like a virgin believe me it really tightens you up and he will notice it!!!

trinket · 10-12-2007, 01:04 AM

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Originally Posted by janine

Kegels... Tried and Tried.. what ever!..That really doesn't work!. must be a myth...

Know exactly what you mean - I don't think they're a total myth - but defo very difficult to keep up consistently.

There's always.....http://www.pelvictoner.co.uk/

This helped me get over the consistency issue by providing a bit more 'structure' to assist all round - instead of just sitting there watching the telly and remembering to squeeeeeeze! lol.

CanuckDiva · 10-12-2007, 01:19 PM

You people crack me up, Gina, Debz, Cindy - I was almost crying I was laughing so hard.

But seriously, I found my hormones were just a bit nutz. I am divorced, have a boyfriend who I really care for and we had a terrific physical relationship before surgery. I'd say maybe 6 weeks after surgery I had some days where I was looking at him like 'ewww' and it used to be 'wow'. I even started thinking about ex bfs from years gone by... I think it was hormonal upheaval. And, yet the other day... I was thinking how hot he is... Yes, I'm a little up and down on this one.

Physically, vaginal looseness - no, never, I pray it will never be so!!!