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View Poll Results: How Many Times a Week/Month Does the Married Couple Have Sex???
7+ Times a Week 3 3.90%
3-5 Times a Week 15 19.48%
1-2 Times a Week 19 24.68%
1-2 Times Every 2 Weeks 14 18.18%
1-2 Times a Month 10 12.99%
0-1 Time a Month 6 7.79%
Never...or VERY Rarely 10 12.99%
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Old 02-04-2008, 08:09 AM   #51 (permalink)
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It has been said, that the average married couple will have sex more in the first year of marriage, than they will for the rest of their lives. I wrote a short essay about this subject, it is way back in my blog if you guys have not read it.
I went to your blog to read the article, and ended up reading the post about your Dad. Got a little emotional...I called my Dad just to say hey. He had no idea that I just really needed to hear his voice. Sorry this is off topic--but it was really touching, Jim.

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Old 02-04-2008, 08:45 AM   #52 (permalink)
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I went to your blog to read the article, and ended up reading the post about your Dad. Got a little emotional...I called my Dad just to say hey. He had no idea that I just really needed to hear his voice. Sorry this is off topic--but it was really touching, Jim.

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Thanks Mikey - That is probably one of the most difficult things in my life - not having him to go too. Keep yours close brother! I try to talk to my son every other day.
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Exclamation You guys are so soppy....

....... and I love you!!!

Jip, I also got all emotional about that part Jim (lost my Dad in 2005 and miss him soooo much) - going to find the married sex part now

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....... and I love you!!!

Jip, I also got all emotional about that part Jim (lost my Dad in 2005 and miss him soooo much) - going to find the married sex part now

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Co-ed would be fun!




Though, on so serious note...I could do it every night...but there's the whole pregnancy and STD thing to worry about. Can't do any hormones...so it's only barreir methods and we know the failure rate on them! Plus, with the crazy hours I work...hard to find a steady man to keep it up when I'm available That's why I have 3 to rotate through
You could get an IUD. The copper-T is non hormonal and I've had mine for 5 years and it's WONDERFUL! If I wasn't married I'd still use condoms with it for the STD factor but for birth control itself it's FANTASTIC!
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I am in the honeymoon period, but answered anyhow. It's the same as when I was married before and each time I've been in a longterm relationship.
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After 30 years of marriage, a couple was lying in bed one evening, when
the missus felt her husband begin to fondle her in ways he hadn't in
quite sometime.

It almost tickled as his fingers started at her neck, and then began
moving down past the small of her back. He then caressed her shoulders
and neck,slowly worked his hand down over her breasts, stopping just
over her lower stomach.

He placed his hand on her left inner arm, caressed past
the side of her breast again, working down her side, passed gently over
her buttocks and down her leg to her calf.

Then, he proceeded up her inner thigh, stopping just at the uppermost
portion of her leg. He continued in the same manner on her right side,
then suddenly stopped, rolled over to his side, and became silent. A s
she had become quite aroused by this caressing, she asked in a loving
voice, "Honey, that was wonderful.... Why did you stop?"

Oh,I found the remote," he mum bled.
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Old 02-04-2008, 12:33 PM   #58 (permalink)
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We've been married for almost 3 years, so some would consider us newlyweds, but some would not. I don't think we're newlyweds anymore, but we still enjoy each other's company (thank goodness!).

In talking to lots of other married couples, we're probably in the average 3-5 times per week. But if my hubby had his way, it would be every morning and every night. I just don't have that kind of energy. Maybe after my surgery I will...
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Old 02-04-2008, 12:39 PM   #59 (permalink)
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That's not normal it can't be Jeannie! LOL I try for daily, but sometimes we are just tired.... so at least 5 times.... If that's what going on... no wonder people are being unfaithful and getting divorced all the time... people need lovin'!
Amen! My sister holds out on her man to get what she wants. And, big surprise, they're not doing too well. My philosophy is that if I keep my man happy, he won't go anywhere else to get it. My sister's bf agreed with me...
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OMG - I am so ashamed - I need to get me some action!
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