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12-31-2007, 05:22 PM
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Here we go again!
Well once again Donna and her gang has struck. I have tried numerous times I've given her my number to call me and talk it out with me and she has refused. Even after all Donna did to assassinate my character I had a connection for free pot that I tried to give to Donna knowing she needed it and it helped her and she wouldn't use it. I seriously think Cindy, Duckie, Donna, all the rest of you who want to use this forum as a free for all with beating people down. YOU GUYS NEED some SERIOUS THERAPY! What gives you the right to be judge and jury over something that doesn't pertain to you? This does NOT relate to GBS and helping others now does it? Hope it was worth it to you guys. Did it make you feel all warm and fuzzy inside to beat a person down? People like you really make me ill.
This was a private matter I couldn't take care of because I was in the hospital having an EGD done to dialate a stricture the day that she demanded I fix the drug deal that she made me wasn't good enough and she wanted me to return all the drugs and I couldn't I was in the hospital!!
Then she got mean and rude and demanding and told me she wanted street value of her pain pills at 25 bucks a piece x 10 and I told her to pound sand. I didn't have that kind of money.. and second I don't take orders from anyone and certainly not going to start with Donna. So Donna comes on here telling people I stole drugs from her, I asked her to return my armani sun glasses that were my dead sisters that I had inherited and is the only thing I HAD of my sisters, and she wouldn't give them back to me. I'm sure they are lost or broken by now.. hope you enjoyed them too! Continue on with the threads people... I came clean because I did nothing wrong except my part of what I did wrong was that I went into someones house I didn't know and bought marijuana from them and got loaded while I was there because I was in such chronic pain, and got accused of something I didn't do because it suited Donna's support that week. Donna you are absolutely certifiably NUTS! Your drugs were in a LOCK BOX I did not have your key I did not take any of your pills. In fact I still am staring at the bottle of lorcet pills you gave me... you have lashed out on this forum many times.. leave me alone.
I'm around if anyone has issues that relate to GBS.. and complications I'm way too busy for this nonsense. I see how you guys tar and feathered John a couple weeks ago. because you guys think it's ok to call someone a pompous ass in public. People like you as I have told all of you in PM's that I wouldn't befriend any of you nor will I be at any of your homes anytime soon. So go on with the drama, I'm done posting about it. Good luck to all.. Drove another valuable person off the board Donna good for you!
Email if anyone needs help with complications I will answer those as long as they aren't inflamatory and mean.
Have a Happy New Year.. Suzy
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12-31-2007, 05:38 PM
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Really done?
So if you are really done Suzy then let that be your last posts on this topic. Just don't respond to any of the inflamatory stuff you read...it's a losing battle...seriously.
My hubby told me for years... "let the fools prove themselves"... I didn't beliee and thought I had to right the wrongs na show other what was wrong with people...like they were gettign away with something. Then one day I took he adivce... it was hard as it went agaianst my nature but hoenstly it worked.. now I do that more often than not..
In the end you know the truth of what happened that day/week/event. that's all that's important. The rest of this mud slinging and name calling and derogitory remarks are just time wasted....
Ingore it and move on... you did what you needed to do but being honest and sending a private PM to Donna... she chose to make the whoel thing a mesy public discussion and now she and others that participate can just live with that... you shoudl really be done... I'm proud of you.
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12-31-2007, 05:55 PM
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#143 (permalink)
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I will only be replying to those people who need help with GBS. Seriously I'm not posting another thing about this issue.. and as you said let the fools prove themselves. I know it's a losing battle that's why I'm not playing. It's nonsense. Thanks again we'll talk. Suzy
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Originally Posted by paige52
So if you are really done Suzy then let that be your last posts on this topic. Just don't respond to any of the inflamatory stuff you read...it's a losing battle...seriously.
My hubby told me for years... "let the fools prove themselves"... I didn't beliee and thought I had to right the wrongs na show other what was wrong with people...like they were gettign away with something. Then one day I took he adivce... it was hard as it went agaianst my nature but hoenstly it worked.. now I do that more often than not..
In the end you know the truth of what happened that day/week/event. that's all that's important. The rest of this mud slinging and name calling and derogitory remarks are just time wasted....
Ingore it and move on... you did what you needed to do but being honest and sending a private PM to Donna... she chose to make the whoel thing a mesy public discussion and now she and others that participate can just live with that... you shoudl really be done... I'm proud of you.
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12-31-2007, 06:23 PM
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#144 (permalink)
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This madness has gone on long enough. I am tired of Suzy/Janie/Psycho assassinating my character and making up stories that soothe her conscience.
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Originally Posted by LQQkn
Well once again Donna and her gang has struck. I have tried numerous times I've given her my number to call me and talk it out with me and she has refused. After she sent me a pm laughing at me that I finally had gotten my karma, she gave me her phone number "in case I wanted to discuss this." Even after all Donna did to assassinate my character I had a connection for free pot that I tried to give to Donna knowing she needed it and it helped her and she wouldn't use it. This is absolutely not true and never happened.I seriously think Cindy, Duckie, Donna, all the rest of you who want to use this forum as a free for all with beating people down. YOU GUYS NEED some SERIOUS THERAPY! What gives you the right to be judge and jury over something that doesn't pertain to you? This does NOT relate to GBS and helping others now does it? Hope it was worth it to you guys. Did it make you feel all warm and fuzzy inside to beat a person down? People like you really make me ill.
This was a private matter I couldn't take care of because I was in the hospital having an EGD done to dialate a stricture the day that she demanded I fix the drug deal that she made me wasn't good enough and she wanted me to return all the drugs and I couldn't I was in the hospital!!This is also not true. I didn't make an unsatisfactory drug deal--I was stolen from, which she has admitted, with the graceful comment "tough shit."
Then she got mean and rude and demanding and told me she wanted street value of her pain pills at 25 bucks a piece x 10 and I told her to pound sand.This is a blatent lie. I didn't have that kind of money.. and second I don't take orders from anyone and certainly not going to start with Donna. So Donna comes on here telling people I stole drugs from her,I never pointed out her name, Cindy was the first person with the huevos to name the thief on the board for all to see. I asked her to return my armani sun glasses that were my dead sisters that I had inherited and is the only thing I HAD of my sisters, and she wouldn't give them back to me. I know nothing of any sunglasses, didn't at the time, and don't know now. Why would I want your sunglasses? I have transitional lenses on my glasses. I'm sure they are lost or broken by now.. hope you enjoyed them too! Continue on with the threads people... I came clean because I did nothing wrong except my part of what I did wrong was that I went into someones house I didn't know and bought marijuana from them and got loaded while I was there because I was in such chronic pain, and got accused of something I didn't do because it suited Donna's support that week. Donna you are absolutely certifiably NUTS! Your drugs were in a LOCK BOX I did not have your key I did not take any of your pills. In fact I still am staring at the bottle of lorcet pills you gave me... Funny, I don't remember giving you a bottle of Lorcet. So basically you stole more than just the oxycontin...way to narc yourself out more!you have lashed out on this forum many times.. leave me alone.
I'm around if anyone has issues that relate to GBS.. and complications I'm way too busy for this nonsense. I see how you guys tar and feathered John a couple weeks ago. because you guys think it's ok to call someone a pompous ass in public. This is completely irrelevant to her stealing from me and then lying about it. People like you as I have told all of you in PM's that I wouldn't befriend any of you nor will I be at any of your homes anytime soon. So go on with the drama, I'm done posting about it. Good luck to all.. Drove another valuable person off the board Donna good for you!
Email if anyone needs help with complications I will answer those as long as they aren't inflamatory and mean.
Have a Happy New Year.. Suzy
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Here is the actual pm I received from Suzy/Janie/??:
Originally Posted by LQQkn
I can see how you finally got what you deserved after flaming my ass over something that never happened the way you spun it at your house. I never stole your property at your house (only mistake I made was getting stoned and buying marijuana from another drug addict you!) and what you did to me in a public forum well now you can see the hurt it causes. You have no idea what you did to me. (how do you justify doing that to someone who is critically ill at the time?) How does someone who is critically ill (think back now to your bowel incident) come onto this forum and fight your accusations? Only mistake I made was befriending people for support! I can honestly say what goes around comes around, and I've witnessed it with seeing this post from you. I've lurked for many months because of what you said and couldn't post. Hope it made you feel all warm and fuzzy to take away my ONLY form of support at the time which well we know what you did. If you want to bring it all up feel free you took my words out of context before and posted them from emails.. you have no class. I've got plenty of public support (NOW) and you cyber people... well can I just say boobies and how is my hair? I am so done with reading posts of people flaming others because they have issues and aren't dealing with them and like to flame and belittle others. It's plain mean spirited. There is enough hate and discrimination in the world. Good luck with your holidays sounds like you need it, I'm sure you are just dying to go post over on that thread go for it you are one of the most mean spirited of the bunch! Suzy
P.S. I would have emailed this directly to you... but wanted to make it easy for you to flame me.. read all about it.
"The last time I spoke my mind with abandon was when I was weaning off of one of my antidepressants (which didn't work, I am back up to the old dose), and someone I thought was a true heart friend flamed my saggy ass and ended her friendship with me. It really hurt that she did that based on a post rather than asking where I was coming from or looking at the whole package of me. I have been sorely tempted to enter the fray, as I have some very definite opnions on the post, but don't want to lose any more friends. It hurts too much. Far less painful to shake my head and move to another post.
And no one is to ask who broke the bond of friendship, I have way too much class to embarrass her that way.
Wasn't the answer you thought you'd get, wasn't it?"
Nice, huh? My biggest mistake was befriending someone, trusting them and not being cautious when it came to helping them. It is my nature to help people if I can, but I expect not to be taken advantage of in the process. Her persistent vitriol and obvious glee at my physical and emotional issues only serve to validate her lack of integrity and as such, hurt this board. I remember a post of SuzyJanie??? when she complained that people weren't being supportive enough of her and her "threat" to leave the board. Lots and lots of people, including myself, begged her to stay with us. It's too bad we didn't know then what we know now.
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12-31-2007, 06:42 PM
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#145 (permalink)
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Originally Posted by LQQkn
I seriously think Cindy, Duckie, Donna, all the rest of you who want to use this forum as a free for all with beating people down. YOU GUYS NEED some SERIOUS THERAPY!
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Yes, we are the ones the neeeeeeed SERIOUS THERAPY. You and Phil have no idea what you are talking about. Just becuase Ducki, Donna and I (and a few others..you know who you are  ) speak our minds does not have anything to do with issues we have from losing a butt load of fat. Cracks me up that people think we need therapy over fat issues just because we CALL IT LIKE WE SEE IT. If it makes you feel better and a bigger person to think we have issues then so be it. Why don't you go take a stolen pill so you feel better.
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12-31-2007, 09:02 PM
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Suzy, I really could careless what people say about you!!! I dont know you as a "person" just on here! and pm's and you have helped me more than i can express in words you and paige both!! I give you both props for for what you have been through and if pot makes you feel better than so be it!!! i have heard it more than just from you!! Vicodens makes me feel better!! And i will continue to take them untill im fixed!! Again props too!!! love you girl!! 
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[size="5"][color="Blue"]Being reversed on Jan 18.I WAS REVESED ON JAN 18,2008 NOT EVEN A YEAR OUT!!
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12-31-2007, 09:09 PM
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Why are you all being so mean to suzy? she had been here for us all good and bad!! This is just not right!! I thinkk you all owe her an apolgily!! 
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220/216/119/115
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Height 4'11 OR 5'0
04/11/07...Had surgery!!! my nerves were still wacky but hey i did it!!
size before surgery was 18 now size 9
[size="5"][color="Blue"]Being reversed on Jan 18.I WAS REVESED ON JAN 18,2008 NOT EVEN A YEAR OUT!!
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12-31-2007, 10:53 PM
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#148 (permalink)
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Originally Posted by lward76
Why are you all being so mean to suzy? she had been here for us all good and bad!! This is just not right!! I thinkk you all owe her an apolgily!! 
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This is why...
OT--please beware!
If she was so innocent then she would have fought the allegations in the first place instead of running and making a new fake login name.
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01-01-2008, 12:03 AM
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hey, you people really need to take this off of public posts. This is sad. I read the posts to get advice and offer knowledge. Not everyone needs to read your love triangle issues. Seriously, someone please moderate this conversation and put an end to the immature nonsense that some of us don't really need to be reading about during recovery. Take it off of public posting!
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01-01-2008, 12:46 AM
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Is this what happens?
This whole thing stems from the orginal post that doc's don't always take care of there patients needs. Pain is a terrible thing and should be cared for by medications. Not self medicated by patients or friends. I see this type of thing happen time and time again. It's so easy to place blame on friends when the real blame lies with the doctor's who don't take care of there patients. Now it seams the problem has transferred to addiction and this will be a tough road to go down.
The surgery can cause so much good to some and so much damage to others. We all have alot to learn from this post. All of us need to be our own advocate. We all must listen to our bodies and make our doctors listen to us and if they don't listen.... find one that will.
Best of luck to you all...
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