Ladies, When she says "It's not you, it's me!" should I worry? She is telling me that in her past she used sex as a comfort tool, that she confused with love. I tell her that her past doesn't matter to me, that everything that happened before we met we can not change. Lately she has pushed me away in the bedroom, not wanting to confuse what we have with her past relationships. I try to tell her that it her that I fell in love with and not the sex. I try to tell her everyday how amazing she is. The tough part is my sex drive is going crazy right now and she doesn't want to have sex. I am really not sure what to do.