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Old 10-08-2009, 01:56 PM   #1 (permalink)
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Default Update - very long

Since so many asked questions that involve long answers, I'm doing it in a new thread. First off, bump pics. I posted these in another thread, but I think they got buried. It's okay, I don't mind posting them again. I'm pretty much all belly, hard to tell from the front, but from the side, I swallowed something resembling a watermelon...too big to be a basketball.





Okay, that's out of the way. Oh hey, how about another picture before answering the deep questions hehe....I made these for little man. It's my first BIG knitting project that I actually finished. I'm so proud.



Okay okay, no more stalling........

Immigration and where we stand....

As of September 15, 2009, according to CIC's website (Canada's Immigration people), they have received all our paperwork and have made a decision!!! Now, before you all start squealing and jumping around.....we still don't know what the decision is. When they adjust your status to Decision Made, one of 3 things will happen.
  1. An interview will be required, at a time and date of their choosing.
  2. We will either be approved or denied. A letter will be sent.
  3. If we're approved, all our PR paperwork will be sent along with the approval letter.

We haven't gotten the letter yet, so we don't know which of the 3 things is going to happen. We've been trying to call them, but for the past 2 weeks, they're phone lines have been busy. Busy to the point where once we get through all the automated stuff to wait for an agent, we get a recording saying they're too busy to take the call and disconnect us. Part of this is due to the tsunami last week. They're pushing through applications of people from that area, so agents are busy talking to those people who want to know what's happening with their apps now.

We're hoping it's good news. We're tentatively making plans as if it's good news. I need it to be good news. No airline will let me fly after November 25th.

Baby Birthing Plans

Okay, so currently, the plan is another c-section. Except, my iron level is way too low to survive surgery without a transfusion or two. I'm working on that right now. My OB wants to deliver at 39 weeks, which happens to be Christmas Eve. So, because of the holiday, he's aiming for the Monday before, which I believe to be the 21st of Dec. If this is how it has to be, then so be it. I'm not in a mental position to fight my doctor, the hospital, and the state on having the birth of my choice. The ONLY reason I have to have another section is because I've had 2. They don't care that the first one was over 13 years ago.

Now, on the off chance that I'm back in Canada, I'm going to try a vba2c. Assuming (again) that the hospital lets me. I think if I explain the reasons behind my previous surgeries, the fact that one was 13 years ago, AND the fact that neither of them were medically necessary and both were "planned", I might get to try natural. Heck, with all the pain I've been in each and every time I eat, I think this labor thing will be cake.

Feel free to ask questions.....
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Old 10-08-2009, 03:06 PM   #2 (permalink)
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Thanks for the update. Crossing my fingers and toes for you guys. This has gone on way too long, as I bet you're aware. Good vibes your way...
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Old 10-08-2009, 03:30 PM   #3 (permalink)
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Well i hope that you guys get a yes answer and you get back there before Nov 25th. If you don't get back will Andrew be able to come out here for the birth of your guys' little boy?? I hope it doesn't come to that and that you are in Canada w/your hubby again really soon!!!!
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Old 10-08-2009, 04:03 PM   #4 (permalink)
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Yep, if I'm not able to get up there in time, he's so coming down here. Last November, he filled out this form online about how we felt he was treated unfairly at the border when we tried to cross. They finally got back to him almost a year later. They said that they treat everyone like a potential illegal alien (I call male bovine excrement here), but they wiped the record they created on him. So, no more secondary scrutiny when he tries to come down again (supposedly).
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Yep, if I'm not able to get up there in time, he's so coming down here. Last November, he filled out this form online about how we felt he was treated unfairly at the border when we tried to cross. They finally got back to him almost a year later. They said that they treat everyone like a potential illegal alien (I call male bovine excrement here), but they wiped the record they created on him. So, no more secondary scrutiny when he tries to come down again (supposedly).
Well that's good. Lets hope they are true to their word. Actaully lets hope the next time he comes out is to help you move back and you get back before the baby is born.
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Wow! Hard to understand their justification for keeping your family apart for so long.

I sure hope you all can be reunited and soon.
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It's crazy that they've done this for so long, you have children together, so it's obvious that this is the real thing. I'm sorry hon!! But soooo excited about your son coming. I can't wait til it's my turn! =)
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First off....the bump and the pants are just to cute for words.

I really hope that you find out something soon and you can have your family back together. I had a friend that was a Canook married to a Marine and she went through hell trying to get status in the US. Needless to say she divorced the active Marine just before the second anniversary and went back to Canada. She then married another Marine that had just gotten out and got her papers in 2 months. Go figure.

Anyway, I wish you luck and I'll keep you and your family in my prayers. Oh yea, if necessary I can "sneak" someone over the border if necessary.
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