Everyone will have a different story, but I had surgery on a Wednesday, went home Thursday and was driving the kids to school and fending for myself on Friday. I will say that I could have definitely used some help getting up from a horizontal position for the first couple of weeks. I really had to work at it by myself and it sometimes hurt like a mother. I've heard that some people sleep in recliners and that helps quite a bit.
If you have someone who can help, take it!

Best of luck to you... and congratulations!