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Originally Posted by Brooke220
Marty, yeah, it would be great to look into the future -- at least, I think it would but sometimes I wonder  .
I've just recently come off a bad day of eating foods I don't think were especially good for me. The difference is that before I wouldn't stop at one day or two days or even a week -- I kept going and going. This time I'm really motivated --thanks in part to my tool and in part to my successful weight loss so far -- to get back on track right away.
Lisa, to answer your question, I count my calories, trying to stay under 1,000 a day although some days I may have a little over that. I try to make sure that I get as much protein as I can while I also getting in vegetables and some healthy carbs. Maybe once a week I'll have a snack treat -- like a 200 calorie bag of Chex Mix. What got me off track the other day was mandatory OT at work, which I was depressed about -- so when they served us nachos during our breaks I indulged and felt really bad about myself but got back on track the next day. The main thing is that I'm not denying myself anything but I do limit my portions. When we go out, for example, I'll eat maybe a fifth of my husband's Red Robin burger, along with a side salad. Maybe once a week or every other week I have a glass of Chardonnay when we go out. If I see a dessert I'd like to try, I do -- with one (two at the most) bites. I don't want to get full on it; just taste it. When I'm shopping at the grocery store I read the protein and calorie content of everything I buy and make my choices accordingly.
By no means do I consider myself a guru of what you should and shouldn't do -- I've just found a handle on what works for me.
I also try to get in some exercise at least 6 days a week. If I can't make it to the park to walk my 2 miles I'll make sure I work in the yard. I'm also doing a LOT of walking in stores, looking for new clothes and such.
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Brooke,
Well, ok, maybe knowing the future wouldn't serve me too well for the other areas of life.

It is good to have some idea with the surgery because I know when things are "normal" and have lots of people's advice and experience to fall back with how to handle each new thing.
I think you got it right when you say you got a handle on what works for you. I think that's a lot of what this whole thing is. I have partially figured out the keys to my short and long term success. That, for me, is the biggest accomplishment. I too have many times had a bad afternoon, or a bad day, or a few bad days..........never to the old extremes, not even close, and somehow now the mindset is different and it does not send me on a downward spiral. I just close that day or event and go on. That is so freeing to finally do. All or nothing thinking and feeling is definitely one of the reasons I got MO.
Not only do I admire your weight loss success, but I think it's awesome you have been so committed to exercising. I do ok, but would love to increase it.....and just haven't yet. Keep up the good work.
