[paulette]

I am completely new to this process. My surgery is scheduled for 11/18--it will be open surgery and include removing my gall bladder (I already have gall stones). For the longest time, I would not have considered this surgery, but since starting menopause three years ago, I have gained 65 lbs--and I was already overweight to begin with and have been all my life. In fact, I have not weighed less than 200 lbs in nearly 35 years. I've never been a yo-yo dieter--just can't lose weight in the first place. I was "normal" only one short period of my life many, many years ago when amphetamines were legal. I ate 500-800 calories a day--and that was maintenance for 125 lbs. My hope is that this surgery will put me back to that caloric situation as my body seems to be unwilling to burn any more than that. In any case, I just wanted to say Hi to the people who log onto this forum. I'm somewht of a "loner" and have never been a "support group type" of person, but I have a feeling that I am going to need some support, nevertheless. I have been fortunate to not have diabetes or heart disease or high blood pressure--yet. However, my arthritis has become so serious that I can barely walk much of the time. The pain is entirely in the weight bearing joints, so surely losing 100 plus pounds will help this problem. I apologize for being long-winded--I promise to be "short and sweet" in the future. Any advice, warnings, etc. that you have for me will be much appreciated.

[Butterfly]

Hi Paulette,
Welcome to the forum. You are going to find that a lot of people here will support you in one way or another. It might just start with you going out there and reading all of the different posts we have posted on line. You will also find that several of us have experienced what you have experienced and can bring you support in many different ways.

I had surgery 9 weeks ago today. I will tell you that it is something that I do not regret having and would recommend it to anyone that is considering it. I'm so glad to hear that you are already scheduled and you know that you are having it open. My husband is now in the process of getting everything together for dictation to take place. He has seen how well it's gone for me and is also ready to live a longer, healthier life with me and our four kids.

If you need anything please do not hesitate to ask us. We have several people here in different stages of their recovery and that are post-op like you. We are good listeners and good advice givers.

Welcome again!

[Blueyz]

Hi Paulette,
Welcome to the forum. This is the best place. I treasure the friends I have made here. Ask questions and you will receive answers. We are truly blessed to have this forum! Again, welcome and hope to meet you soon.