Follow up to need some advice - ThinnerTimes

suzanne · 10-26-2005, 12:31 PM

Thank you all who helped me through this problem. I went and meet my ex for lunch today we hadn't seen each other in 8 years. It was a nice visit, and he hasn't changed much. I took all of you with me, in my heart, and the words of encouragment that you gave me We chatted about old times, and he talked about his soon to be wife. He told me I looked great, and that I had changed a lot. We ate, and then I we gave each other a hug, and that was it. I realized I didn't want him anymore, and that I hoped he was happy. I would not have had the courage to face this if it wasn't for all of you. Thank you so much for your support!!!!!!!!!

Gladitsme · 10-26-2005, 12:33 PM

Suzanne,

Glad to hear it went well.

LisaBoston · 10-26-2005, 12:59 PM

Suzanne, glad it went so well. Now, don't you feel much better?

Bypassingme619 · 10-26-2005, 01:32 PM

Suzanne, you are better then me. But I commend you for facing your fear of meeting him and stepping to the plate. Now hopefully he will respect you enough to let you live your life and find someone you deserve. Because he is going home to his soon to be wife, who are you going home to? It is time to get out and spread your wings(if that is what you are ready for). Big Hugs.