moniram8

and Mike.....oh Mike
You are so damn smart....i cant stand it....

Hey what are your rates for couples therapy? lol

ANDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDD
Your new pic is looking some kind of HOTTTTT !!!!! lovin' it

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Michele

start pre-op diet...254
GP on 5/1/08.......240
as of 5/16/08.......224
as of 6/27/08.......204
as of 7/14/08.......198....I did it !!! ONEDERLAND BABY
as of 9/26/08.......173
as of 10/23/08.....164....thats 90 pounds!! huh?? wut??
as of 11/21/08.....157....My BMI is now NORMAL!!!!

TT gym rat #116

fisher1000

It's FREE unless somebody brings cake--then somebody's got to PAY!

If the love is there...then things will fall into place...but that doesn't mean in the meantime that you should waive your rights to remind him of a few things. I know my wife NEVER hesitates to remind me of ANYTHING! Communication is the key and not keeping anything bottled up. I may have said good stuff here, but I don't always operate at that level. Since the surgery, my moods and my psyche have been in Hyperdrive, and still are today--I drive all my friends and family up the wall--BUT we usually talk it out and things are all good. That's probably all the needs to happen with you two...a little talking, a few crab legs*, a nice fire, and a blanket. Things will work out...


*substitute a protein shake if you'd like...they just aren't as sexy as crab legs.

Take care,

Mike

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Open RNY - September 24th
198 pounds GONE, BABY, GONE!

BMI: 63 (was) / 31 (is)

Countdown to goal: 206 205 204 203 202 201 200 199 GOAL!

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My Thoughts: it's because Women are from Venus, and Men are from Mars...

need support? applause? pats on the back? That's what we're all here for!

Glad to have you on this Long Road with me!

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moniram8

Oh Toony
How true.....how freakin true...
I am happy to be on the same road with you also !!!!

xoxooxoxoxo

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Michele

start pre-op diet...254
GP on 5/1/08.......240
as of 5/16/08.......224
as of 6/27/08.......204
as of 7/14/08.......198....I did it !!! ONEDERLAND BABY
as of 9/26/08.......173
as of 10/23/08.....164....thats 90 pounds!! huh?? wut??
as of 11/21/08.....157....My BMI is now NORMAL!!!!

TT gym rat #116

izanmanyzanz

Unless it is a cake with splenda and spiru-tein right Mike!!!

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Lap RNY: 12/23/07 Merry Christmas to Me!!! Thank You Dr. Chae!!
Gallbladder Surgery: 07/26/08 Thank God!!!! Thanks again Dr. Chae!!!

HIGH-07/05/07-357LBS
PREOP-12/23/07-340LBS
CUR-10/20/08--247LBS
GOAL--150LBS

CENTURY CLUB BABY---08/04/08

BabyNicole

I disagree, as I think he is doing it on purpose. He may feel that if you get too thin you will leave him. He is obviously insecure. I'd have a "Come to Jesus" meeting with him. Tell him that you listened to him regarding his WLS and didn't complain, and now it's your turn. Reassure him you love him and won't leave him when you get thin. But, if he keeps it up, you won't feel supported. Good luck!

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Surgery Date (Lap RNY)-06/23/08
Onederland-07/29/08
Lost half of my desired weight loss: 9/20/08
Height: 5'3"
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Hamburgler

just say no to cake, sugar free or not, put the ruber band on the wrist and snap it, stay away from the cake.

moniram8

Just in time.....i had a little 'chat' with him about an hour ago. He said that once i am skinny, i am gonna realize that he is fat, bald and old.....i just cant with men sometimes!!!! (he paints a pretty picture, doesnt he...lol)
I got so angry then so sad. In my eyes he is the most beautiful man in the world, inside and out, and whether I am 254 lbs or 189 lbs or even 150 lbs...that wont change. And i told him that like a hundred times. He was the man that, at 254 lbs, saw me for who i am....not the fat surrounding me...and that changing my outside, doesnt change my inside. He got kinda quiet and then promised he will be better about the whole thing.....we will see...WHEW for now......fingers crossed......

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Michele

start pre-op diet...254
GP on 5/1/08.......240
as of 5/16/08.......224
as of 6/27/08.......204
as of 7/14/08.......198....I did it !!! ONEDERLAND BABY
as of 9/26/08.......173
as of 10/23/08.....164....thats 90 pounds!! huh?? wut??
as of 11/21/08.....157....My BMI is now NORMAL!!!!

TT gym rat #116

Godsblessedme

and I totally agree with Nicole on this one. I hate to say it Michelle er Mariah but it does sound like he cant handle the fact that your going to be all hot and sexy and full of energy when he's resorting to his old ways for whatever reason. My husband was doing the same thing even though we're separated do you know that idiot fool bought me a cake on my birthday A CAKE! yeah i think your BF is doing it on purpose

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Highest weight 268
Surgery Date: 12/18/07 Lap RNY
Down 82 pounds (12/1/08)

BabyNicole

GREAT!!!!!!!!!! I'm so glad to hear that! Telling him that he loved you for who you were will hopefully open his eyes.

I've already made a decision that if anyone of my men friends wants me when I get thin, I'm gonna tell them to take a hike. If you don't like me fat, then I don't like you when I'm thin! It may seem harsh to some, but that's how I feel.

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Nicole
Surgery Date (Lap RNY)-06/23/08
Onederland-07/29/08
Lost half of my desired weight loss: 9/20/08
Height: 5'3"
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