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Originally Posted by Jazz
Thanks Cindy!
I went through them and read and I feel better, but it is hard to let go of the fear of the surgery not working, just like every other diet. I am going to put the scale away like the thread suggested. I go back to the doctor in 2 weeks and I will let them weigh me at that time.
Thanks
Judy
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Good choice, Judy. As you can see from all of the threads that Cindy posted this happens to pretty much all of us. You aren't alone and you certainly aren't the only one to be afraid that this surgery won't work. And those were just a few of many, many more posts just like yours.
I'm glad to see you are putting away your scale. It is one of the best decisions you can make for yourself.
For myself I was averaging about 10-15 pounds a month. I had it all planned out when I would reach my goal. My body thought differently. It took me an entire year longer than I 'planned'.
So put that scale away and just concentrate on following the rules set up by your physician. I know you are in a hurry but the weight didn't come on over a matter of months and it won't come off that fast. This isn't a race. Just enjoy the process, embrace the WOW moments (Keep looking, they are most certainly there), embrace the changes that you need to make in your life so that you can be healthy....and then celebrate the next time you get on that scale in a few weeks.
It will happen. I promise. As long as you keep following the rules it will happen. In the meantime celebrate life.
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