My dear Deborah..."Don't Worry...Be Happy"...la la la!!
I think that we are very much alike in our weight loss struggle...even with our "helper"...SURGERY! I too get in some pretty annoying stalls

, but my scale numbers are not going UP; so I try to think positive about a slower weight loss.
Do not give up hope sweetie. We shall persevere and we will eventually lose the weight. My doc says that most of his patients, if not all, get very close to their goal in a 12 to 18 month time frame. That sounds pretty reasonable to me.
Believe me, I know it is hard not to compare yourself to the other "losers"

on this forum. I find myself pretty envious of the fast losers, but know that my body will do what it has to do in the long run, as long as I stick to my post-op regime.
Then again, I tell myself that if I lose the weight at a somewhat slower pace, perhaps my skin will have more time to shrink wrap itself around my new body. Oh hahahaha!
Sending you a HUGE HUG...the mums