Bmuscial

Well i had an EGD monday and guess what i have two large deep ulcers in my intestines. Doc had to biospy them and we will get pathology back in two weeks. He sat me down and told me what ever i was stressing about was now taking a psycial effect on my body and i needed to do something about it. So i have been worring about the problems between my husband and i that it is making me sick. I wish i could just find the strength to do what i know i need to. I am just scared my kids will hate me for it and i want them to be happy. However, what good am i to them if i am sick.

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Kasey

247.5/115/150/140ish
highest/current/Goal Dr./My Goal
12/12/06 Surgery date

ONEDERLAND 02/08/07
Century club from original consult weight 05/21/07
Century club from surgery in 5,4,3,2,1 I'm here

132 lbs donated to starving model's

Corrine

I'm really saddened by your situation - I grew up in a bad parental environment.

No one can tell you what to do sweetheart but I'll always remember catching a Dr. Phil. He said something along the lines .... the only thing worse than being in a bad marriage for X years is to be in a bad marriage for X years and a day.

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~~~~~~~~24 Sept. 2007 - Lap. RNY & umbilical hernia repair
27 Oct. 2008 - Emergency Surgery - omental mass,
gallbladder, adhesions & appendix

..260 / 224.7/ 111
highest/surg./now
BMI 18.5...5'5"

PepsiGuru

Think I sent you a private email about this.

My wife and I called it quits after 16 years of marriage in mid November. No yelling, no arguing. Just a clean cut break up. (I ended up staying with the boys - they are teenagers and just decided to stay with me)

I'm not saying this is the best solution but sometimes its the ONLY solution. I would rather be alone then with the wrong person. (Yes I feel very alone right now but I'm sure I will find someone down the line)

The last 5 years have been really really rough. It was just something that was inevitable. (we saw it coming a long time ago and the time just seemed right)

Best of luck to you and I sincerely wish you the best. I know what you are going through right now. Don't let this destroy you from the inside out. You are a butterfly that has blossemed and your beautifull colors are showing through.

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Irving
Lap RNY - May 3, 2007
Highest/Surgery/Current/Goal
273/254/150/170

TT Gym Rat No. 58

One-Der-Land reached - August 7, 2007

Goal Weight Reached - October 23, 2007

veroniquetalk

Kasey - I hope you can find the strength to do what you need to. Remember - if you err in a decision it is best to err on the side of what is best for your children - even if they are angry about it in the beginning. I have been struggling with the same issue - although my children are adults.

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Veronica
Lap 7/6/05
215/155/123
start/goal/current At NORMAL weight!
BMI 39.32/21.8

Toony

Get well Kasey... do what you need to do to take care of your children's MOTHER!!!

katie

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Gran2008

This is a little late.....over a year...but I am new to this forum. BUT please watch the movie "Fireproof" before you make any decisions!!! I hope this gets to you before you have made a decision!
God Bless You!!!