sweetchristiangal

Here's the stats:

FXH and I have been seperated for 3 years. (not divorced due to 1 year waiting in NC, Iraq deployment and my move. He is slotted to go back to Iraq in a few days.) Well recently we have been talking more; not about us or anything personal always about our daughter and I share things about her and her day etc. Well yesterday I was describing her outfit...she was actually describing it but has a terrible speech problem. She also has my "flair" for fashion. Well we started joking back and forth and I realized I MISS HIM. I don't miss the BS from being married and all that crap but I miss him and parenting w/ him. Am I crazy for possibly wanting a fresh start w/ him??

I should mention the whole going to Iraq thing doesnt phase me as he has been over several times.


Thanks for your honest and tactful responses

Christina

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264/260/162/125
pre op/day of/current/goal

"...an excellent canidate for laproscopic surgery." Per Dr. Pender

chilmoe

not sure what to say with this one, but sometimes we dont know what we have until its gone or slipping away, could it be one of those cases? not sure what to do about it, but thats what came to my mind

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Carrie
Open RNY - Sept. 11, 2006
5'3" Start 239 / Current 110

One-der-land Club October 1, 2006
Over-weight Club December 13, 2006
Doctor's goal: 140lbs March 23, 2007
Open Gallbladder Surgery: August 13, 2007
TT Gym rat club member #4
Current: 16% BF

Rachel

It has been my experience that time has a way of allowing us to view those from our pasts with Rose Colored Glasses. That being said, there is also the saying that time heals all wounds. It basically can go either way. If you feel that you are missing him and you might want to give it another shot, well then go for it. Take is slow and maybe consider counseling just to get the "old" stuff sorted out so that is doesn't creep back up on you later. Good luck to you!

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315/289/174
Highest/Surgery/Current

Surgery 2-28-07

Goal to just be overweight 190
Goal to be "normal" 155


Do I really want to be normal?? Having some body issues. Don't want to be too thin.

JenBear7

IMHO... it is always easier to like someone we dont live with on a day to day basis.. and.. you DID fall in love with him at one point. Its possible, that now that you arent around each other constantly, you are remembering what you do love about him. I can say there are times I still miss my ex, and that was a horrible relationshop... I miss him.. but I KNOW we could never live together again..

And.. you have to go whereyour heart leads you in this case.. Good Luck in whatever decision your heart makes! Keep us posted

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Jen
367/325/227/180
Start/Day of Surgery/Current/Goal

July 9, 2007.. my re-birthday!
Century Club: November 17, 2007

140 Pounds Lost... I'm not Going to Miss them or even TRY to find them.. they can stay lost!! (And if you see them... RUN.. you dont want them either!)

"Life is 10% what happens to you, and 90% how you respond to it" ~~ Lou Holtz

Cindy

OK - I know most of the internet lingo acronyms - but this one has me stumped!

What does FXH mean?

Cindy
Open RNY - 1/3/07
Highest/Surgery/Current/Goal
311 / 291/ 253/ 170

CeeCee

Future ex-husband?

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Cynthia
I live in my own little world, but it's okay because they know me here.

Height 5'2"
Highest: 335
Surgery:328.6
Current: 223.8 as of 7/1/08
Goal: Who cares? I feel great!
Surgery Date: 2/12/07
Open Roux-en-Y at The Miriam Hospital, RI
TT Gym Rat #11
PhoenixBear

JenBear7

That was my guess too!

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Jen
367/325/227/180
Start/Day of Surgery/Current/Goal

July 9, 2007.. my re-birthday!
Century Club: November 17, 2007

140 Pounds Lost... I'm not Going to Miss them or even TRY to find them.. they can stay lost!! (And if you see them... RUN.. you dont want them either!)

"Life is 10% what happens to you, and 90% how you respond to it" ~~ Lou Holtz

bridgetgirl

What one of our stapler sisters and her husband pretty much hated each other up until surgery, and pretty much after. It was about 6 months after her surgery when things started changing between them, and they fell in love all over again. She changed, he changed and things went wonderful. Although they couldnt stand each other, they were staying together for the sake of the kids, but now their relationship is amazing. Who is to say that couldnt happen for you as well? Keep an open mind, and see what happens.

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J.Bridget Fisher aka koi-pea
2/9/04 lap 5'11"
298/170-trying to lose another 10

www.myspace.com/caliclovercutie
What Sawyer would call me on LOST: ladybug

"People will argue with you that getting what you want in life isn’t something you can learn, if you’re destined to be one of the worlds winners as opposed to one of its perpetual whiners, its because you have been born with the right talents and temperament and have a big dose of self-esteem, ambition, and good judgment." Kate White

buffsrule76

rachel is right time heals all wounds, whats mean't to be is meant to be

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current/my goal

462 / 180
Wish I could get someone to cover it

VanessaSFL

For some reason my heart just started to flutter as I read your post...I was hoping you were going to say...you missed him or something like that.

But I am a mushy-gushy,"never been kissed" favorite movie kinda girl.

Siiiggghhhhhhhhhhh

V

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Van


Lap RNY March,21 2005
280/130

VPA BEAR