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Post-op Gastric Bypass Gastric bypass post-op concerns, milestones achieved, establishing new eating/exercise habits, dealing with emotions without food to turn to, etc.

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Old 03-02-2007, 06:08 PM   #31 (permalink)
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Bonnie:
As with everyone else above, my heart goes out to you and your family.

Here's a verse that I'd like used at my memorial when I pass - you may find it comforting:

Do not stand at my grave and weep
I am not there; I do not sleep.
I am a thousand winds that blow,
I am the diamond glints on snow,
I am the sun on ripened grain,
I am the gentle autumn rain.
When you awaken in the morning's hush
I am the swift uplifting rush
Of quiet birds in circled flight.
I am the soft stars that shine at night.
Do not stand at my grave and cry,
I am not there; I did not die.

God bless you and your family................
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Old 03-02-2007, 06:28 PM   #32 (permalink)
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Bonnie,
So sorry to hear of your loss. Thank you, though, for the beautiful reminder to hug our loved ones today. I pray for a peace that passes all understanding to be with you and your family during this time!
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Old 03-02-2007, 06:51 PM   #33 (permalink)
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My thoughts are with you Bonnie and I wish nothing but peace for you and your family.
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Old 03-02-2007, 07:32 PM   #34 (permalink)
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Bonnie,

I thought I had verses for you but here is some material I found for you. I hope this is what YOU need to know~

Sowing in Tears

Psalms 126:5
Those who sow in tears will reap with songs of joy.

The most difficult place to keep moving in faith is the place of extreme pain. Extreme pain, especially emotional pain, can become immobilizing to the human spirit if it is allowed to overcome us. The psalmist tells us there is only one remedy for overcoming painful circumstances that will result in joy. We are to sow in the midst of these times. You cannot do this if you live by feelings alone. It is an act of the will. This act requires that we go outside ourselves in pure faith.

I learned this principle during one of the deepest periods of my life. I had lost much that was dear to me. A mature man in the faith admonished me to reach out to others in spite of my own pain. "Invest in someone else," he said. I did not realize what a place of healing and comfort that would become.

"He who goes out weeping, carrying seed to sow, will return with songs of joy, carrying sheaves with him" (Ps. 126:6). Pain can become a source of joy if we take the first step by planting seed. There is a harvest that will come if we sow in the midst of tears.

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Old 03-02-2007, 08:14 PM   #35 (permalink)
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Bonnie, Please know that you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. There is nothing I can say to make it better, I'm sorry. Please feel free to let me know if there is anything I can do for you.

Sending you all my love!
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Old 03-02-2007, 09:20 PM   #36 (permalink)
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Bonnie, if we all could be there with you, we would all stand around you in a never ending circle holding hands uplifting you and protecting you and your children from this horrible pain you are having to endure. I wish we could really be there for you and I hope you feel us standing around you when you think of us, because our hearts are there even though our bodies can't be. God bless you and your family. We are here if you need us, lean on us when you need us.
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Old 03-02-2007, 09:53 PM   #37 (permalink)
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Bonnie..I am so sorry for you loss. My heart goes out to you and your family. I wish you the strength it will take you to get through these next few days. God bless.
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Old 03-03-2007, 09:27 AM   #38 (permalink)
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Bonnie, so sorry to hear of this tragic news. My thoughts are with you, be strong. S XOXOX
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Old 03-03-2007, 10:56 AM   #39 (permalink)
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((((((((((((((((((BONNIE))))))))))))))))) Sending my love and prayers to you and your family. I know how hard this can be and I wish you strength and comfort. If you need anything, even to just talk please let us know. We are all here for you! Stay Strong sweety!
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I am so sorry for your loss. My prayers are with you and your family.
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