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Post-op Gastric Bypass Gastric bypass post-op concerns, milestones achieved, establishing new eating/exercise habits, dealing with emotions without food to turn to, etc.

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Old 03-02-2007, 08:08 AM   #21 (permalink)
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God bless you Bonnie. I know you will make your husband proud with your eulogy tomorrow. Stay strong in your prayers and God will see you through.
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Bonnie, I'm so sorry to hear about your loss. There really are no words I can say that will ease your grief but my prayers are with you. I pray that you will feel the arms of your heavenly Father wrapped gently around you, just like your husband felt your loving arms around him as he saw the eyes of his heavenly Father. May you find the peace that passes beyond all understanding as you are cradled in the arms of your Father.
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Bonnie I am so sorry to hear about your husband passing away.

Sending you big huge hugs!

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Peace be with you and your family Bonnie.

I am so sorry to hear about this, but know that whatever you write for the eulogy will be absolutely perfect, because it is quite obvious that you speak from your heart and there is no greater love than that.
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Old 03-02-2007, 10:30 AM   #25 (permalink)
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My thoughts and prayers are wth you Bonnie ~ may your dear husband rest in peace...
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Bonnie,
I am so very sorry for your loss. Words are so inadequete at a time like this. Please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers.
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Old 03-02-2007, 01:17 PM   #27 (permalink)
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My love and hugs go out to you and all those who are touched by this. I wish I was there to be able to take some of the burden off of you or to at least help with all of the things going on right now.

Both he and you are to be considered lucky for the great love that you will forever share! HUGS!
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(((((((Bonnie)))))))
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Bonnie~
I am so sorry for your loss. Words just seem so inadequate at a time like this.
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So So sorry to hear of your loss. My worst fear is losing my husband, he is not well either but I am hopeful. When my niece died at 18, I found this poem and I just loved it, thought I would share it with all of you...

WHEN TOMORROW STARTS WITHOUT ME

When tomorrow starts without me and I'm not there to see,
If the sun should rise and find your eyes, all filled with tears for me,
I wish so much you wouldn't cry, the way you did today
While thinking of the many things, we didn't get to say.
I know how much you love me, as much as I love you,
And each time that you think of me, I know you'll miss me too;
But when tomorrow starts without me, please try to understand,
That an angel came and called my name, and took me by the hand,
And said my place was ready, in heaven far above,
And that I'd have to leave behind, all those I dearly love.
But as I turned to walk away, a tear fell from my eye,
For all my life, I'd always thought, I didn't want to die.
I had so much to live for, so much yet to do,
It seemed almost impossible, that I was leaving you.
So when tomorrow starts without me, don't think we're far apart.
For every time you think of me, I'm right here, in your heart!

I'm gonna cry just copying and pasting. So sorry {{{{you and your family}}}}
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