Bella

Sorry Amanda .. I really think you are being maniputated and thus are devaluing yourself to describe your situation as 'cut and run'.

Everyone commits to their job ... but no one can see into the future. Your boss should have hired additional help the minute you started having problems.

I'm not going to say nice things like everyone else and I'm not trying to piss you off .. but I can't believe you would take a 'hopeful'/'maybe' recommendation from you employer .... over your life. What if her opinion of you is already ruined and she's gives you a bad recomendation anyway?

I really think you are diminishing your value by begging the doctor's not to order you off work.

Unreal.