We Thought We Had Forever - ThinnerTimes

bonnieboots · 01-14-2007, 08:25 PM

Well folks, I have just experienced the worst day of my 38 years on this planet. My lovely husband of 13 years was diagnosed with terminal cancer. He thought his diverticulitis was acting up. Instead, he has bowel cancer and has been given 6 months. I can't bear to think of him no longer with us. We have two daughters, ages 10 & 11. We thought we'd enjoy this new life of health...he quit smoking, I had the surgery...we started aquasize together...we were just laughing that at this pace we'd be driving each other crazy into our 80's.
No matter how crazy he can make me...I'd give anything to have more time. We will now live our days like each on is our last. I will do everything to make him comfortable and happy. I hope each of you go hug your kids...make love to your significant other and cherish every day. Bless you all. Thanks for being there. Say a prayer for my Rob. Love to all. BONNIE

VanessaSFL · 01-14-2007, 08:32 PM

Bonnie I am so sorry.I think this is the first post that has made me cry.I will say prayers for your family.There is a reason,why I don't know,again I am very sorry.

V

Cinerbelle · 01-14-2007, 08:37 PM

Hi Bonnie,

I don't even know how to express how terribly sorry I am to hear this. Pleaes let me know if there is anything that I can do from afar to help you in any way. HUGS!

butterfly2b · 01-14-2007, 08:39 PM

I am so sorry to hear your news. You and your family will be in my thoughts and prayers.

As a health care prodessional, please remember that we are not always right. It's about living right now and continuing to build memeories. Keep on loving your lives together and playing together.

Take care.

JenBear7 · 01-14-2007, 08:43 PM

I will keep your husband, you and your family in my prayers... know that miracles DO happen, and I certainly hope this is one of those instances. *hugs*

And make sure you get a second opinion... what may be terminal to one doctor, may be curable to another. My 82 year old grandmother just finished her treatments for lymphoma in her bowels. She had a major surgery- 3 huge tumors removed, and some perforations repaired.. then she had chemo.. May not be relative.. but.. dont give up hope!!

bridgetgirl · 01-14-2007, 08:43 PM

Reading your post has sent shivers up my sides, and tears to my eyes. I cant even begin to imagine your pain. I am so sorry to hear this news.

If you ever feel like you cant take another day, if you ever feel like theres no where to turn, if you ever feel like you dont want to be a burden to those around you, but are starting to stumble, please, please, please that know we are here for you.
If you need help dealing with the pain, the emotions, the sorrow, the anger, the unfairness... we will help you. May God be with you stapler sister.

(((( HUGS )))))

AlabamaChick · 01-14-2007, 09:18 PM

Bonnie, I sit here with tears in my eyes for you, feeling some of your pain, knowing I could never really know just how you feel, but I want you to know how deeply sorry I am for your news. If you ever need any of us, please don't hesitate. We are here for you hon. I am saying a special prayer for you and your family tonight.

rainrain · 01-14-2007, 09:20 PM

Bonnie,
My prayers are out to you and your loving family.
My husbands name is also Rob, and I can only hope I could be as strong as you are now.

Keep your faith what ever that may be and be strong for him.
He needs you and the girls to show him you will be o.k. with out him, because he has done such a good job already!

In the mean time, we will give you strgnth and encouragement as you need it.

Rain

kittens4 · 01-14-2007, 09:25 PM

I am so sorry. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. I pray you can find a treatment or some miracle. I work for a group of GI doctors. If you want me to ask them anything just let me know. Take care sweetie. xoxo

MiladyB · 01-14-2007, 09:38 PM

Bonnie, I hardly know what to say to you. Your post has made me stop and think and realize how thankful I am for my husband. Please know that my prayers are with you, your husband and your children. I pray that you will find the strength you need to face each day and whatever it may bring. Know that we are here for you. That there is a safe place here to let out your pain, anger, frustration...anything.