Thanks for your kindness. That is what attracted me to this web-site, how supportive you all are to everyone here. It means alot.
The surgery my mother had was indeed different from the procedures done today. In fact, they no longer do the procedure she had done.
I have realistic goals with regard to this surgery. I want to do the things I used to enjoy such as skydiving & horseback riding. At present, it would be cruelty to animals if I tried to perch on a horse at my current weight

. I also have the normal fears about it.
Again, I appreciate your kindness. Pam