Sweet lady, I think you have some idea what void that food is filling for you. You already have a good idea which is the first step towards taking control. The book by Geneen Roth is an excellent one. I've read several articles written by her. She suggests that you look how that food you are craving makes you feel. Does it make you feel warm? Does it make you feel loved? Often those are the feelings you are trying to find when you eat. Here is a link to some articles that she wrote that I posted awhile back. I think they may help you come to some understanding.
My Mother, My Appetite
Love, Loss, and What I Ate
http://www.geneenroth.com/cupcakes_for_you.php
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Beth
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"...if we pay attention to the fact that we can move,
breathe, feel, laugh, cry and notice sunsets,
there is cause for joy."
-Geneen Roth
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