Originally Posted by mulli3292

I am sorry for your mom, My mom just had the surgery done a month ago, me and my sisters begged her not to do it , i am so scared and i have a bad feeling i never seen my mom so sick, i have been on here researching to see what this surgery is all about such as her complications she is having, she looks like hell she is so pale and weak, everything goes right through her. she told me tonight she feels she is going to die, i refuse to let her die i have a migrain from searching for hours on the computer about this nasty surgery, can someone please tell me how to help my mom. her doctor says she will adjust but i know something is not right i know my mom,, her heart palpitations are getting severe and she says it feels like the blood inside her starts to rush out of her. she cant hold anything in and is always in the ER. Is this common? please help