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Old 04-06-2008, 02:52 PM   #11 (permalink)
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Great Job! I noticed we have the same surgeon in common. I think you have done an amazing Job! keep up the good work...by the way. Any clues on how to keep up with clothing without going broke?
I found out that EBay is too expensive. I did find the Good Will helpful. I have never shopped there before, but found lost of good deals on almost brand new clothing. got any helpful hints?
Almost for got to tell ya I live in Mocksville (near winston).
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Old 04-06-2008, 10:40 PM   #12 (permalink)
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Hi there! Thanks for the comment. It hasn't been easy, but I am proud of myself. Unfortunately, I am not yet where I want to be and I'm not sure if I'll ever get there at this rate.

Dr. Bauman's office is great. He is a little dry, but he is a wonderful surgeon and he always answers all my questions honestly. I really like him and his staff.

As far as clothes go, that is a beast. I am lucky in that I have been able to periodically buy clothes as I've gone along. Right now I have basically three pairs of pants that I wear to work and a pair of jeans. I also have several shirts. I have some older pants that I can wear but that are getting too big. I just pretty much wear something until I can't wear it any more. I still have to shop at Lane Bryant, haven't gotten to the point that I can wear regular sizes. I wear a 14/16 top and 16 pant at Lane Bryant but I can't even wear an 18 at other stores. I just try to buy things that are versatile and can be worn for work or casual. Luckily, I have a job where I don't really have to dress up so I can get away with knit tops and more casual pants, which are cheaper than the typical business attire.

Good luck to ya in this journey! Hope things go well.
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Old 05-07-2008, 12:06 AM   #13 (permalink)
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So...I never thought I would consider this...a weight loss surgery I mean...but with a BMI of 52 and at 40 years of age most of which was spent on one diet or another......I was almost delighted when I saw my first Lap-Band commercial on TV. Then I researched...saw the amazing results in the clinicals...and now I am surgeon and hospital seeking. Do they do a psyche with the Band? (I already see a shrink!) So I was hoping to get some tips or something. Is it a liquid diet before? Is it just as food restrictive as the GBP? I eat a healthy organic diet...I just can't seem to control portions. *bad Jacki* Any and all recommends are welcome. Oh, btw....howdy neighbor...I live in Arden. I need an ASCS or Medicare accepted hospital/surgeon. I am reviewing the hospital in Hickory and the one in pinehurst...any hints? Anyone? Please??:

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Old 05-08-2008, 05:31 PM   #14 (permalink)
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Jackie,
That is one reason I chose Dr. Bauman. I could go and see who I wanted too for the mental health Part. I too had my own physician who I saw for ADD. It really ticked me off those other places only "used" the people on "their list". Most of the time I found out the "listed psychologist" didn't take my insurance even thought I have BCBS and Tricare. As far as I am concerned I should never have to pay out of pocket for anything. Dr. Bauman does not take Tricare, but the hospital does. Also no matter where you go the nutritionist do not take any insurance (although they should).
As a nurse I understand why some people "require" the listed mental health professionals. This big a step no matter which way one goes. Either procedure requires that the surgeon trust the opinion of the mental health person as well as giving you a fair assessment of your mental health. At the same time I also don't understand the requirement either. There are so many underlying eating disorders and mental health problems that having this extensive surgery without the eval is risky for the surgeon and everyone who takes care of us....I wouldn't want to take care of a patient who shouldn't have had this drama.
Anyway, Look around. I am not sure the lap band needs a mental health consults. There are pro's to both procedures. I looked at it like this..I have struggled with my weight all my life and there are truly some genetic factors that contribute to this problem-not me just being crazy. I wanted a permanent solution that is why I choose the whole enchilada.

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Old 05-08-2008, 07:41 PM   #15 (permalink)
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Can you tell me what hospitals you've chosen, what surgeons and your reasoning why? Also, whether you disliked any part of the lap-band process...(or GBP) and what regrets, if any, that you have?
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Old 05-11-2008, 04:03 PM   #16 (permalink)
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Jackie,
I really just did some calling around to see who of all these folks I liked the best. Timeliness for return phone calls or answers to the questions I had was important. I did go to the seminar in Greensboro. It seemed like a good program, however, those were part of the folks that sent you to their "own Mental health people" who did not take insurance of any kind. It was strictly out of pocket. I did not check out the surgeon at Wake Forest because I have a thing about "students". I don't mind working in an educational facility but as a patient I only wanted to really have to deal with one person and that is the surgeon who did the procedure or the Nursing staff who is familiar with the Doctor and their protocol. You really have to have a lot of trust in the surgeon to place yourself in their care. That is the biggest factor.
I wanted to know about death rates and infection rates. Dr. Bauman has had zero people die and a very low infection rate. He is very meticulous. We had a slight bump in the road post op, but it caused by miscommunication. It was cleared up very quickly.
I chose the surgery over the banding because to me is seemed more permanent. The lab band people do not have to worry about Vitamin Differences like the folks who choose the Y en Rou procedure. That is the big difference. If I ever loose kidney function due to diabetes or any other medical problem I will not be a candidate for abd. Dialysis as I understand the procedure. However, I don't worry too much about that because my diabetes control has improved significantly.
If you choose to go through with this don't be surprised if you have cold feet all the way through till afterwards. I remember being wheeled into the operating room and thinking "what the hell am I doing"...the only thing that consoled me was the fact that no matter who I had spoken with that had the surgery, no matter what I read that was written by those that had the surgery, and no matter what video clips I saw of those that had the surgery; None of them had any regrets. That was the only thing that kept me from throwing the towel in. I can't tell you how glad I am I didn't jump off the litter in the OR and run (that would have been a sight too see, (fat chick) me half naked with the gown with the back out running down the hall like a 5yr old . I am so glad I went through with this.
I won't lie. The first couple of months were mentally tough. My family and co workers tell me I was a bear. I think this had more to do with the chemical changes due to my type one Diabetes. If the people who have the Y en Rou have type 2 diabetes it usually goes away. There was a piece on 60 minutes about that. I had mine done on Nov. 4th. It was kind of tough through Christmas because I couldn't eat solids yet. Right at December 24th I could start on the solids again, but I ate so little there was really no point. I have to say that I wasn't hungry, but it was my family who made it a big deal as they ate 2-3 plates of food and desserts. I am so glad I can't do that any more. I can barely eat the 2-3oz of meat with a bite or two of veggies on the side now. I am usually stuffed. I do not feel deprived in any way. If I want a bite or two because it looks good. Most stuff usually makes me sick and doesn’t taste like it use too, but that is a good thing. Things too sweet or two greasy I can't do. I have to say that now eating a half a protein bar daily is like having a candy bar to me. It is just sweet enough and filling. I really like the South Beach Chocolate Peanut butter ones. Those are the only one's I eat. I try to get some low sugar OJ and a boiled egg in the morning. Then at lunch I take a small portion of what ever we grilled the night before. I love the grilled meat.. If I give into wings I can only eat three with the skin off. I only do this every once in a while.
Going out to eat with my family I usually order off the kids menu or the senior menu. Most places will let you do this. My daughter loves Golden Corral. We went there and to my surprise I was given a lower cost like the senior/kid menu because I discussed with the manager my surgery and she understood. I was surprised to find out that they often reduce the price for people who have had these types of surgery. I got to eat grilled my choice of meat and my family was happy they once again got to go to Golden Corral. I still have "lunch with the girls" except now I can eat three days off my left over meats. Every thing else is either given away like the rice or thrown away. I eat the meat and a bite or two of veggies and that is that I am done.
No matter which one you choose do the research. Different people have different personalities and their is more than one doctor willing to help. I don't know if this helps any. I can tell you I don't regret what I did. I am very happy with the effects (except for my boobs shrinking-but that is going to be fixed eventually). Every one stops me now and asks what I did be because even 50 lbs from my weigh goal I look great. I will be back to being fabulous when I am there. This time at weight goal I will remain fabulous. I won't have to worry about gaining it back because that was the whole point of going through the drama. I may have to worry about wrinkles, but have strong belief that the main struggle with weight is a thing of my past. As far as wrinkles, that is what plastic surgery is for.....
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Old 05-11-2008, 04:35 PM   #17 (permalink)
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It does help, and thank you so much for the thoroughness of your reply. I am researching this to death, of course, but hearing it straight from the fillies mouths is what I really need right now as I enter the surgeon picking stage of this venture. That feeling you have, of reaching a great body weight and HAVING NO FEAR IT WILL COME BACK....that is what I crave so very much. The mental gravity of the process is one of the main reasons I think I am not a good candidate for Rou en Y surgery///plus I already had a hysterectomy last year...I don't think I am up to messing with any more of my innards to that dramatic degree. I don't need to reach perfection...but able to buy off the rack would be nice. Oh...and...I want to run again. Just for a bit. Without my huge breasts in in the way, or asthma, shin splints, compression pain...you know the list I am sure. Actually, I think the lap-band will be the easy part. The body lift afterwards is what looks truly frightening.

And i know what you mean about the cold feet. Every time I realize I am committed to doing this radical step, my heart races and I get chilled across my skin. But I am tired of being hidden inside of myself. I am finally successful in my career...but can't travel the way I've dreamed of because I can't sleep in regular hotel beds. I can't climb five steps, never mind the steps of an old Scottish castle. I never go out in cold weather for fear of falling on the ice, but I long to see Alaska. My list runs on and on.

But watch me. I'll do it all before i die. Just watch me.

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Old 05-12-2008, 07:25 PM   #18 (permalink)
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Jacki,
I dont' think you will regret it, besides they can take the lap band off if you really after trying decide you don't like it. Read on Girl. I personally am looking forward to the whole body lift..it is expensive. Maybe I need to be a swan contestant.....
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Hi ladytonya,
I am in Asheville as well. I have been reading everything I can about the surgerys. I was wondering if you could give me a call. If you can just let me know and I will post my number. I am going through the same Dr. as you. Thank you
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