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Aw, thanks! You've done amazing, too! I'm using your experience with Ian as inspiration to know I can find love in this crazy post-op world. Best wishes to you both!

Hello Peaches

I thought thought what you had to say was interesting, I am pleased we can talk so open on here and will think about what you said.

You taking the time to even think about me is wonderful and for that I thank you.

take care Dianne

I wanted to write to you yesterday since you were having troubles with your partner.
I hope it's all resolved now. but I wanted to say not to give in to self sacrifice inorder for him not to leave you. you have come through one of the biggest moments of your life. just really look at the situation clearly. maybe it's you that doesn't really want him. I hope you don't think i'm talking out of turn. i have just had enough of lowering my expectations and pretending i'm happy. trust me, you won't be alone for long!!

best wishes and if you need to talk you know where i am.

awww, thank you Dianne. I'm doing ok. The pain seems to have decreased but now I'm fighting with a cold. I'm going to have a scope tomorrow to take a look down there in my little pouch to see if there are any ulcers down there. If not my surgeon and I will have to have a little chat to see what he wants to do next. Thankfully I haven't been too uncomfortable over the last 2 days. The last really bad day was Tuesday...so that's an improvement. Sorry to read what you are going thru. Please know you have a listenting ear here, ok? It sounds like you need to take some time for yourself, sweetie and think some things thru. Take care.

Thank you, Even at 3+ years post op I am a work in progress.This surgery is a total lifestyle and mental change.Thank you again

Thank you for that message it is kind of you

just stopped by to say HI and tell you that your pics are great.

Hello I am sorry for my delay in beingon the forum I am bakc now and will keep everyone posted on all thigns happening

Hey, just wanted to say a proper congrats on your engagement - by the looks of things and your upbeat posts all is going well!