NikkiJoT

thanks Nikki...I know. It has been pretty bad here lately. It didn't feel that way when I first started posting, but there are a couple of people who are *really* negative. I think it first started when I am suzen said she felt like one person was picking on her (I think it was mistymee) and then JersyGrl had to pile on with lots of disrespectful comments. Then that who attitudes thread. It's been going on for a couple of weeks. I hope it'll die down. I asked them to delete the thread because it's just getting really negative responses.

And that Karlos guy - geez. What was up with the chav/neanderthal comment? That was totally uncalled for and slightly racist. I wrote to him and told him so. I'm not goint anywhere, but I think I'm going to let it cool down a bit before posting something again.

I was just about to write to you to tell you don't let the others bother you! Everyone on here seems so judgemental lately or maybe always (since i'm fairly new). I got your point and I think we've all had those experiences. They just want to point out the negative instead of relating or at least being sympathetic to what you experienced!!

Thank you for posting your story on that thread. It seems like once people lose weight (like JersyGirl and Babz), they forget how you are CONSTANTLY getting sh*t for being fat. Especially in CA. Maybe it's because they don't live here - but it's so much more prevalent than when I was on the east coast. And I lived in San Diego too! I went to college there!

Anyway, thank you for posting your story on my thread and supporting me. I appreciate it.