yea sounds too familiar i just cant believe that a man would up and NOT want to see his kids again, i am so flabbergasted

That is just horrible.......but that is what happens when a divorce is looming....believe me i know all about it. I have stories and a half that would make your jaw drop. It never ceases to amaze me that these men....the ones we married.....have the capability to be so heartless and cruel after a break up. ESP since neither you nor I did anything wrong.....my ex cheated on me for two yrs and i finally had enough. He didnt pay me a dime nor see the kids until it was court ordered......ass.......eventually it will be over and you will be moving on to soooooo much bigger and better things...i can promise you that much........
on a lighter note......my ex saw me like a week ago......and the next day told my younger daughter to tell me that i needed to eat a sandwich...lol i guess he noticed a difference in me...........you are gonna love those moments....loll

i'm going thru yet another battle with soon to be ex he had me and the kids drive all the way to vegas (5 hours) and then after an arguement told us to go home and then wouldnt pay me my child support NOR the gas for the round trip. I'm just disgusted right now

Hey Halle
You are so crazy....lol you almost made me pee myself...lol
You are doing so good lady.....awesome!!! I am so lovinnnnnn your album name too....how u got ur groove back sweet
My weight is kinda starting to set in my brain. My doc is very happy with what i have done in 4 1/2 months....its now 80 but he is also kinda getting alittle semi-concerned. He still wants to see me every month, to make sure that soon we can start trying to slow the weight loss down. He only wants me to lose another 20-25 lbs total and i have basically almost 8 months of losing to go....so if it continues to come off at the same rate, we are gonna have to start adding alot of calories and snacks to my diet. So, basically losing too fast aint a good thing lol so as i see it.....you are actually doing this thing PERFECTLY....
how else are you doing?
ps.......i loved the rocks comment your daughter made....its classic.....lol
xoxoxoxoxooxo

girl shut up! all that weight your loosing making me look like a fat Halle Berry! I think you weigh LESS than Mariah now sister

ARE YOU KIDDING ME! look at you! i think you have surpassed maraiah! you are looking too hot sista girl! now i'll have to call you ummmmmmm Jessica Beal heehe

i too was totally thinking about the cruise since its such a reasonable price but i'd have to pawn the kids off on my parents and i dont know if they would do it for that long. I wonder how much they would be to bring them...

I know.....the distance thing kinda stinks
was contemplating trying to save my nickels in time for the TT cruise of '09' lol
Would be so nice to meet all these great people on here....and of course....yourself!!!!
xooxoxo

aww thanks again honey you make me smile i sure wish we lived closer this is the only sad part of the forum we make such wonderful friends and live worlds apart. OMG and yeah i'm sure i can try to catch up to Halle didnt she give birth yet?

Hey Halle...... you are gonna be giving her a run for her money soon !!!! lol

I lost alot of weight in my face and boobs right from the start. I am waiting for it to work its way downnnnnnn to my booty major problem area lol

I am soooooooooooo happy for you.....YOU DID IT !!! aint it sweet?????
You have to know, even before that onederland moment that you are doing a good job, but for some reason....when the scale reads a weight that starts with a '1' it is a BEAUTIFUL THING!!!!
I am smiling SOOOOO big for you right now Deb....cause i know you are doing the same thing.....
muahhhhhs
luvs and hugs
Michele