Hey there Jenn! I just wanted to tell you to stick with what YOU feel is right for YOU. I read your post a few minutes ago. I haven't had my surgery but I have several friends who have had it and a couple of them have lost friends after having the surgery. The other person couldn't handle the fact that my friend was getting attention...i.e., taking attention away from them...they didn't like that and therefore ended the friendship. I sincrely hope that your friends are not like that and will soon come around and support you. You're going to need their support. You know that you always have us here at TT as well. But in person support is important and it's really good that your dad is behind you.
God Bless and take care of yourself! Keep in touch and email me anytime you need someone to talk to.
