Okay my Sweet ... my big mouth is about to go OFF!
First of all ... have you noticed how radiant and absolutely beautiful your face is??? (No, I'm NOT saying "you have a pretty face for a fat girl" ... I'm saying you have a beautiful face, PERIOD!) Deb, when you get closer to goal you're gonna be a heartbreaker without doubt.
Okay, next thing ... you gotta ditch the red moo-moo ... it isn't good enough for you. I wanna see you in something young, fun and flirty! Your assignment (should you choose to accept it) is to go to a nice department store with your best girlfriend and try on dresses ... AND TAKE YOUR CAMERA!!!
You guys are gonna go out, have a yummy lunch, and shop and laugh, try on cute clothes and have an absolutely wonderful day doing it

THEN, YOU ARE TO POST YOUR HAPPY PICS!
Celebrate your success Deb ... damn girl! YOU DESERVE IT!!!
Love You!!!