i had the same op!! got no finance so i had to pay myself it was expensive but i figured that i had one chance in this life and to go for it..
Two of my friends had the same op, doctor and weight issues so i watched them and how well they had done, so they were like my living guinne pigs

and when it finally got to the point that i could no longer carry that other person around on my butt, back, chins and tummy I went for it....
cant really think of anything else to tell you only that i'm 30 next feb and dont want to have no food/body control in my 30s like i had in my 20's and teens