Kendebrat

OMG You did cause quite a stir - Please learn from it, we are all here to help each other - I am sure if you respect the forum - this too shall pass - Just remember you are talking to alot of women, treat them like you would treat your mother or daughter - I personally did not think it was very tasteful either and I am pretty neutral - so I would be just a little more careful about your humor I think if you are ready for the journey, you will find alot of help here - just make sure you want it for the right reasons - your health and to be here for your family - OK, I will step off my soapbox - Still Welcome and Thanks for sharing your personal story.

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Debbie
284/269/234/140
Surgery: April 12, 2007
Six wk pre-op -15
1 month post-op -22
2 month post-op -13 50lb

ACORNEY

Hi I Am Sad That I Dont Feel Very Welcomed Here On The Site . I Will Be Going. Maybe You All Dont Understand Me . I Dont Know . Thank For Letting Me Join And Posting A Few I Will Now Look For Another Site. Maybe I Will Find People In Phx, Az You All Have A Great Life Thanks Again.

Darlene

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Darlene
Highest~215/Pre-Op~200/Current~125/Goal~130
Height~5ft. 2in.

Myspace
TT Gym rat club member # 36
03/26/2007~Lap RNY Surgery~Dr. Callery

ACORNEY

Thanks Darlene. I Dont Mean To Sound Like A Bitch , But I Am Losing My Faith In Alot And I Am Having Some Personal Problems And I Dont Know How To Deal With It . I Really Dont Have A Supporting Team Behind Me For This Surgery To Happen For Me. Noone Will Help Me Get Things Into Order For Who Will Be Taking Care Of My Son. His Dad Is A Dead Beat Jerk, And Well There Is No Help There. I Dont Know What To Do . Any Ideas? Please Share Them With Me .

readyforit

Welcome Josh

Good luck on your pursuit of the surgery.
I tried to speed up the process for approval . . . that sure didn't work! The doctor advised me this isn't a "sprint" and that I had to go though the whole process. He was right . . . especially since he decides when to submit.
Well, however it works out for you I hope you enjoy the process as much as possible. The head game in this process is WAY bigger than the whole weight loss part.

Welcome to the journey!

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Jim

Surgery Date: October 20, 2006
....359 / 344 / 236 / 195
Highest / PreOp / Current / Goal

TT Gym rat club member #24

Century Club! . . . 5/28/2007


March 14, 2007 . . . -100 lbs since May, 2006 at my highest weight. Not the Century Club yet. . . But very cool!
Dr. Brunson
Green Hospital (Scripps)

Kendebrat

Darlene is right and I totally understand how you feel - but don't give up - find one spot - pre op is where I started and only concentrate on asking your questions, and reading previous posts - I think you are just all over the place and can't find what you need. Preop is the best place to start - Give them a chance, you will find some answers to your questions - just remember we are all just human beings like you and it is hard to comment on every post - Next start looking at the members pictures - they will give you some inspiration-

Sorry about the HiJack Josh - Hope all is going well with you

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Debbie
284/269/234/140
Surgery: April 12, 2007
Six wk pre-op -15
1 month post-op -22
2 month post-op -13 50lb

CeeCee

This whole WLS thing is about second chances and new starts for ALL OF US! So, going forward- good luck! (You too, Acorney!)

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Cynthia
I live in my own little world, but it's okay because they know me here.

Height 5'2"
Highest: 335
Surgery:328.6
Current: 223.8 as of 7/1/08
Goal: Who cares? I feel great!
Surgery Date: 2/12/07
Open Roux-en-Y at The Miriam Hospital, RI
TT Gym Rat #11
PhoenixBear

buffsrule76

thanks everyone. my pcd has to fax the info to them so they can submit so hopefully it happens this week, well see

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current/my goal

462 / 180
Wish I could get someone to cover it

Dyann

I don't know why you feel that way, but I am sorry that you do. Weekends are very slow on the board. In addition, the forum was just restructured to many more subheadings. Personally, I stay in the post op group. I just don't have time to click on each one now. So if your posts have gone unnoticed, it wasn't a reflection on you. Every once in a while I go to the pre op area.
You are young and have a lifetime to enjoy the benefits this surgery has to offer. Read all the old posts and get as much information as you can as it is the best preparation for the surgery.
Welcome.

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DYANN

Lap RNY 1/4/06....
46/19.8/23.5 BMI's 167.9 pounds gone forever as of 9/12/07 116.3%to goal

294.4/126.5/150
5' 7''
Jupiter, Florida
Dr. Jefferson Vaughan: GBP
Dr. P Duddly Giles: Plastic surgeon TT/BL 03.20.2007

buffsrule76

thanks dyann, the support i get here means a lot

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current/my goal

462 / 180
Wish I could get someone to cover it