Hi,
I hope this is not one of those questions that gets asked by every newbie, but I couldn't find an answer through browsing or searching.
I have United Healthcare (Choice Plus, whatever that means

) and I am looking at going to one of the weight loss centers at UCLA, Cedar-Sinai, or USC.
By far, UCLA has the most information on their website. In the Patient Guidebook one of the criteria for even being seen by them is failure of a medically supervised diet. I have also been reading many stories here where people are talking about the same requirement from their insurance companies.
I do not fit this requirement. I would say that until last year, I had resigned myself to life-long obesity. I mean sure, I have been on plenty of diets and I have incredibly low self-esteem, but I attempted to keep some semblance of self through denial. I was in denial about caring about my weight, if that makes sense.
Well, to make a long story short. I am really interested in the possibility of WLS as a tool to make what I had thought was impossible, possible. But I have never gone to a doctor for help with my weight before. I have an appointment with my new PCP tomorrow and I am planning to ask some questions, but I wanted to ask here as well.
Had everyone here who got WLS been on at least one medically supervised diet and failed? I don't even know what medically supervised diets are like?
I feel like I have no hope of succeeding on a diet alone, even with medical supervision. I don't want to go on a diet just to fail either. Do I just need an attitude readjustment?
Also, I am not sure what board to post to, but has anyone here had experience with my insurance or any of the programs I mentioned above (UCLA, Cedar-Sinai, or USC)? I called United Healthcare and they were not able to give me much specific information regarding bariatric surgery, just that I needed to be 100 pounds or more overweight and then have a doctor submit a preauth.
Thanks for any and all replies.