Originally Posted by FutureFitGirly

Hey Cindy... How were the rooms?? Nice? Can you have a loved one stay over with you?? Do they make you get up and walk the same day of surgery? How about the breathing tube? Is it gone when you wake up? I'm really nervous about that and the cathader (sp?) Is that enough questions for you??? lol

Originally Posted by Cinerbelle

5daypouchtest.com

Originally Posted by Baja Big Dog

So Cinder, have you hit a plateau?

The test founds like thats what its for.

Originally Posted by FutureFitGirly

Its good to know someone who has had my surgeon! I'm full of questions. Maybe we could meet up sometime??

does he put you on a special liquid diet like 5 days before surgery?

Originally Posted by pgh3rivers

The following is my original post:

SO this is my problem. I have gained weight during the 6 months of nutirtional classes.The weight management center told me today they won't even submit me to the insurance company unless I can lose 10 pounds because I will be turned down. I started at 247 and am now weigh 262. Has anyone else had this happen? I can't believe 15 pounds will keep me from having surgery.

I feel rotten about this!

That was my original post. It has caused a $#i! storm. After several responses from other users I removed my post. I felt that several people who responded were not sensitive to the specific problem that I was struggling with and I was not comfortable with my original post being available for all readers. Because of the high amount of people who messaged me privately because they too has struggled with gaining weight before surgery, I felt it was important that I repost the original question.

When I posted my original question, I wanted to connect with other's who were struggling with weight gain during the 6 months of supervised diet. I was NOT looking for comments from people who did not know why or how I had gained weight. To make it clear to everyone I did diet and exercise. I gained weight following the program. You can say that's bull but prior to entering the 6 m of supervised diet and nutrition I was taking meridia and orlistat. I was fat, my blood pressure was sky high and I had been on a low calorie diet for months. I decided to follow the program and I gained weight on it right away.

To be clear- I did not remove the original post because I am sensitive. I was FURIOUS more than anything. I was furious that I had other people message me privately because they felt they could not truthfully post because they did not want to be bullied, judged, or belittled by other members.

I was furious that I was followed from board to board by some people. I removed my post and stopped posting to prevent myself from saying something nasty and hurtful to some of the people who had responded to my post.

In my opinion being honest and being a self declared bitch are two very different things. I don't have to become accustom to anything on this forum. I will not accept that it is ever appropriate to speak to people without respect. I am going to try my hardest to be cautious, truthful, caring, and supportive whenever I possibly can on this forum.

What I have learned from all of this is how to block some users. I highly suggest learning how to use this function. We are all very different people. Despite all having WLS (or thinking about it) our paths to surgery and after will not be the same. I expect to find many people that I relate to and connect with on this forum. I don't expect to connect with everyone. I am so glad I learned to block users, because now I don't have to deal with them. I believe that is a loss to them. I have a lot to offer others who respect me, ask questions, and don't jump to negative uneducated conclusions about me.

This is a forum for support. People should lighten up and be sensitive to others no matter where they are in the journey.