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Old 02-01-2006, 03:28 PM   #21 (permalink)
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I've been lurking. Haven't had time to post with work, and the baby turning 1 last Saturday. One of my resolutions is to hop on here at least once a month and post to say hi.

Just an update, I am now down to 335 (down 54 from my all time max). We are following weight watchers, the holidays threw us for a loop as my entire family loves to eat... so we are back on and are going for broke again
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That's just it. I never wear shirts that show off cleavage! NEVER. I just dont, nothing wrong with it...i just dont. And even tho i still get stared at. WTF?
I could totally see if i was lettin the girls hang out, but nope not me. Hubby even asks aren't you ever going to show your cleavage?

That just increases the mystery. Mystery = good. No mystery = better
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Old 02-02-2006, 07:43 AM   #23 (permalink)
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That just increases the mystery. Mystery = good. No mystery = better
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Old 02-02-2006, 12:23 PM   #24 (permalink)
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Not my husband! He is a butt and leg man all the way. He doesn't care for big boobs at all; in fact, he prefers them small and just asked me yesterday, "Are your boobs going to be smaller after you lose all your weight?" I said, "Yeah, they'll be smaller and sagging more." In general, he cares only for butts and legs -- and, of course, a pretty face.
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Old 02-02-2006, 12:51 PM   #25 (permalink)
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I don't have a penis and yet I don't find the need to crotch watch as men walk by.

I wonder how a man would feel if we made it obvious and starred at their groins?

It does not seem to make men uncomphy,even when soooo busted.I would feel silly and look away.

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Old 02-02-2006, 01:03 PM   #26 (permalink)
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You have a logical point there. Again, we are talking about men and sex...logic need not apply.
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Old 02-02-2006, 01:15 PM   #27 (permalink)
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Men's brains just shut off when they see boobs. They literally stop thinking and just stare. I see it happen to other women. Mine aren't big enough to catch anyone's attention and I guess I'm glad.
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Old 02-02-2006, 02:32 PM   #28 (permalink)
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I don't have a penis and yet I don't find the need to crotch watch as men walk by.

I wonder how a man would feel if we made it obvious and starred at their groins?

It does not seem to make men uncomphy,even when soooo busted.I would feel silly and look away.

Just my two Boobies(cents)

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Old 02-02-2006, 03:30 PM   #29 (permalink)
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Just a question to ask yourself, and we all do it. Guys check out women, and women check out guys. It's a nature thing......... I am amused at the whole thing, it used to piss me off that men would only look at me when I was thin, but I'm so over that. Suzy

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Ok, so since i have lost 90 lbs, and i can now where a pushem up bra, since i no longer am so dang uncomfortable in them. I guess you can say they are looking a bit bigger, and perkier these days. Dont ask me how, but i have not lost much if any at all of my boobs as part of this whole WLS deal. Since my belly is smaller, i think the boobs looks bigger.....
Dont take my "tone" wrong i am not mad! Really just curious. I dont wanna ask my husband cuz then he will know men are checkin out my girls. (not that it will matter much, just dont wanna start that whole thing ya know?)
Anyway here is my question, and i am sure it happened before i lost weight, but i seem to be noticing it much more the last couple of weeks, but..........
HELLO GUYS! Yes i can tell your looking at my boobs! What you think your being slick and going un-noticed by staring at them? I think the majority of women notice. Does it just not bother men to get caught looking? What is the obsession?
I know the ladies in here cant help much, unless you wanna express yourself too? But come on men What's the deal? Hope i have not offended anyone, but i really wish i could be a man for just 1 day so i could know what goes on in those minds of yours ummmm...maybe not.
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Ran and I went to Publix(food store in Florida)We both saw a gal with a smoking body.I said to my husband,"too bad her face is unattractive" and he said,"oh?What face,I didn't even notice"

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