Hi Brittany. Here is the web site for Snow Summit (which is the best place to ski - Bear Mountain is higher in elevation, but not as good...):
http://www.snowsummit.com/index_winter.php
And here is Big Bears website. Look up lodging, and then book according to prices and ammenities. Viola! Troip planned for you and your boys. let me know what you find. My hubby and I own in Worldmark, The Club, and they have a facility up there that is super nice, but I don't know the cost if you're not a member...