Cindy,
First of all .. Welcome to our little group of losers!!!

As far as the appointment goes, is this your consult?? Dr. Potts does his own consults, pre-ops and whatnot. Kelly and Dr. Callery work together for those types of things. Seriously take this time that you have right now and really research the surgery as much as you can. I know you said you were waiting since December, but that truly isn't that long. I can say that now that I am on the "other side" a lot easier... lol I know it seems like a lifetime but this is your life and you should know the surgery inside and out by the time you have it. It's a lifetime thing..
Anyway please do go to any and all support groups that you can. You can click on the calendar section of this forum and find all of the support groups listed. You are required to attend the nutritional seminar and the pre-op support group. I did both at least twice prior to surgery as well as all the other groups that I could find. I still go because I feel it is important. If it were not for the support groups and the people at them, there is no way that I would be doing as great as I am today. There is a special bond that we all share weather we like it or not.. lol Nobody understands us and what we are going through like we do. (I hope that made sense..

) You must stay in touch with the support in order to succeed.. that is my philosophy anyway..
Good luck on your upcoming surgery .. you will do great..