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Old 04-03-2007, 09:08 AM   #1 (permalink)
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I went to my monthly support group and we discussed the topic of "Mindful Eating". She did a little exercise with us. We all got a cup of trail mix. We were asked to pick just one piece of food from the trail mix. Hold it in your hand, feel the texture, put it up to your ear (thought she was crazy at this point), put it to you lips, now put it in your mouth. Finally eat it. Then we were asked what did you pick and why. I had never really thought about this before. It was amazing at how we just eat food and never really think about it and how it really tastes or why we picked that item to begin with. Then we were asked to take another piece and do the same thing. Then we were asked did you take the same thing or something different and why? I choice a banana chip to begin with...why because it was the largest piece of food in the cup and I thought it would have the most flavor. Didn't taste good at all. Then I picked a cran-raisin. It had a burst of flavor...very good. The funny thing is the smallest thing in the cup taste the best!

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Principles of Mindfulness:
Mindfulness is deliberately paying attention, non-judgmentally.

Mindfulness encompasses both internal processes and external environments.

Mindfulness is being aware of what is present for you mentally, emotionally and physically in each moment.
• With practice, mindfulness cultivates the possibility of freeing yourself of reactive, habitual patterns of thinking, feeling and acting.

Mindfulness promotes balance, choice, wisdom and acceptance of what is.

Mindful Eating is:
Allowing yourself to become aware of the positive and nurturing opportunities that are available through food preparation and consumption by respecting your own inner wisdom.

Choosing to eat food that is both pleasing to you and nourishing to
your body by using all your senses to explore, savor and taste.
• Acknowledging responses to food (likes, neutral or dislikes) without
judgment.

Learning to be aware of physical hunger and satiety cues to guide your
decision to begin eating and to stop eating.

Someone Who Eats Mindfully:
Acknowledges that there is no right or wrong way to eat but varying degrees of awareness surrounding the experience of food.

Accepts that his/her eating experiences are unique.

Is an individual who by choice, directs his/her awareness to all aspects of
food and eating on a moment-by-moment basis.

Is an individual who looks at the immediate choices and direct experiences
associated with food and eating: not to the distant health outcome of that
choice.

Is aware of and reflects on the effects caused by unmindful eating.

Experiences insight about how he/she can act to achieve specific health goals as he/she becomes more attuned to the direct experience of eating and feelings of health.

Becomes aware of the interconnection of earth, living beings, and cultural practices and the impact of his/her food choices has on those systems.
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From this perspective, everything is equally forgivable, whether it’s our laziness, self-hatred, impatience, large thighs, or tendency to overeat.
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Old 04-03-2007, 11:20 AM   #2 (permalink)
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Great info Stace! Darn it, ou were supposed to take me with you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Sorry, I stayed late at work and just went from here. It was a really good one. I really like the facilitator. Better then the nutrition class.
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You know what scares me the most about this, after the honeymoon period is.......

after food is no longer the choice to cope, their are endless alternatives out there to use. That scares the crap out of me. One of my stapler friends just came out of rehab for rx drug and alcohol abuse, this person hass been clean for 90 days now! Congrats!

The disturbing thing about it, this person looks like the average Joe, at support group here and there, reaching out, having a presence and yet still suffereing silently..... I feel as though that could potentially be me one day. thank God Im in a place where I can call upon my stapler peeps when I am flatering... and JUST FIX IT! But Im afraid of if one day, I dont admit it anymore and decide to suffer silently....

I didnt mean to take your thread to a deep place, but what do we do when we simply dont mind food being around anymore? When we dont miss food at all? But we do miss feeling good by putting substance into our bodies?
(Everyone one run out and get a therapist quick! lol)

Thanks again Stacie, this was very thought provoking for me after I went to the website and started reading...maybe I should have been at the group to ask the therapist these questions. Ciao Bella!
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Don't apologize for stealing the thread...that is why I put it out there. To really think about what we do to our bodies and why. It was very thought provoking to listen to her last night. She actually just got back from Boston at a conference for this very topic.

Glad to hear you friend is clean...first step is to recognize
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Thanks for the link. I printed off the Principals to post on my health board at work...good applications for everyone.
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It is sure nice to have a safe place to say your feelings - I find this forum very theraputic It saves me lots of $$'s on psychiatrist bills. LOL - well maybe not, I may still be crazy. But it is nice to read such wonderful posts.
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