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Originally Posted by JenBear7
Would you pretty please elaborate on this?? I tried to PM you but your box is full... I was surprised to see such a glass half empty post from you!! You were one of the people that motivated me to get off my fat butt and excercise again.. and I am really hoping I am overreacting to this post.. and reading what you say wrong..
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hmm yeah I think you may be reading too much into it. I want people to be real with their goals espcially in the begining. I don't want someone to read my goal or gina's or someone else like lisa all of whom have been working out for a long time and then set something for themselves that isint fesable and may be harmful.
I started out slow just like everyone else did. Its like the whole saying "crawl before you can walk". Someone has already posted in here "im not making any promises" while they are making their goal. I read that and crinched. If you aren't serious about it don't post it. Don't set yourself up for failure. This is my message.
Set yourself up for success. Set a goal you can reach and when you reach that and feel good about yourself. Set a new one. So on and so forth. I want to encourage you to reach high. I just don't want someone reaching too high and hurting themselves or not reaching their goal and getting discouraged and then quiting.
I think its great that sooo many people have taken to this. Its fantastic. I just want everyone to stick with it. And if you get discouraged early you might not stick to it.
make sense? I hope so.
*edit* I also wanted to add. I'm one of those gung ho people. I just go for it but, when it came to exercise and a healthy lifestyle I was never that way. If I was starting out on a bumpy road dealing with so much already...getting me to start would have been very difficult. And if I didn't see the results I wanted I prolly would have quit. Im a very different person now. So my post go's out to all those like me.