What on earth is going on around here? - Page 5 - ThinnerTimes

eyesthatkissu · 01-13-2007, 06:03 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by SDphotogrl99

lol no one is liked by all. I know I am not and heck I am ok with that! All I can be is me

And yes you are fabulous!

PISHAW... who wouldn't like you? Be jealous of you... sure... but not like you?! PISHAW!

JenBear7 · 01-13-2007, 06:04 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by SDphotogrl99

lol no one is liked by all. I know I am not and heck I am ok with that! All I can be is me

And yes you are fabulous!

OT:..

You may think you are not liked by all... bu... I LOVE your hair LOL...

Wildeblnde34 · 01-13-2007, 06:07 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by eyesthatkissu

That's true I suppose. But when it comes down to it, I'd rather someone be honest with me and tell me how they really feel, and even if it hurts to hear at least I've heard what needed to be said. Also it's hard to hear peoples connotation over a typed thread. As I have witnessed myself LOL There were a few replies that got my dander up, but I have to remember I can't hear the tone in their voice and see what's going on in their eyes. SO I have to take it for what it is, a typed opinion, not meant to hurt my feelings or be mean ya know? It's hard sometimes to remember that... I'm sure gonna try... lol

Ok so when I read something like this......Maybe Im a bitch for saying this, if your offended by it... your probably one of those fools I wrote about earlier who I didnt expect to post in the first place. I need to practice what? Help me out here....

Wildeblnde34 · 01-13-2007, 06:09 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by JenBear7

OT:..

You may think you are not liked by all... bu... I LOVE your hair LOL...

I agree...Robin you do have great hair!

JenBear7 · 01-13-2007, 06:12 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Wildeblnde34

I agree...Robin you do have great hair!

Yes.. she does too.. but I was aiming that at SDPhotogrl99

Wildeblnde34 · 01-13-2007, 06:13 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by JenBear7

Yes.. she does too.. but I was aiming that at SDPhotogrl99

She does too! Is that what I can look forward too after a year post op? Yahoooo!!!

eyesthatkissu · 01-13-2007, 06:31 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Wildeblnde34

Ok so when I read something like this......Maybe Im a bitch for saying this, if your offended by it... your probably one of those fools I wrote about earlier who I didnt expect to post in the first place. I need to practice what? Help me out here....

But what offends you? If it doesn't apply to you then it shouldn't offend you right? It's just rubbish... Why would you think it reffered to you? I didn't take it that way at all...

Wildeblnde34 · 01-13-2007, 06:36 PM

Ok here it is in plain ol black and white. I felt as though if I didn't share the opinion of this thread, then I must be one of the "fools" referred to.

Gina in NY · 01-13-2007, 06:46 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by LisaM

I wrote a long treatise, and cancelled it before I posted it, and I'm glad I did. This is what I wanted to say--and as a postscript, that I need to depart from the forum a little while. This seems to happen every couple of months, that this kind of negative blast occurs, and I need more laughter and light in my life, not a place where we feel we can call each other "fools" without reason.

There are so many of you that I love beyond belief, considering I've never met you face to face--I hope you know who you are. Most of you already have my personal e-mail, and you can catch up with me at my website: www.lisamrazik.com. My e-mail is available there...time to go!

How many people are members of this forum? There is no way we can think the same things, need the same things, want the same things etc. etc. When I read something I think is bunk, I say to myself, "Bunk" and go on. I don't get personally offended, worried, whatever.

There is a place for everyone here but we are all mere mortals and may post drivel, may say something mean on a bad day, may not attend to someone that deserves or needs it. But in the end folks, we do more good than harm while we support eachother.

I know I've had posts ignored when I needed something, but that told me I had work to do on my own. I've also been shocked at the outpouring of support and love I've had. My 9 month pre-op journey, I wouldn't have made it wihtout this forum. My first three months, learning to eat - needed you - you saved me day after day after day. I am one of the most successful patients in my program because of you folks.

I hear what Robin is saying, hear what all of you are saying in fact. I don't think anyone has said anything wrong - just different ways of seeing things.

And DONT FORGET - there are a lot of PMs that happen here. I know if I want to post something that might be too personal or offensive, I PM the person. I'm not the only one.

Cinerbelle · 01-13-2007, 07:27 PM

Oh come on people...he who casts the first stone is not without sin.