http://www.thinnertimesforum.com/ en Sat, 21 Nov 2009 04:38:26 GMT vBulletin 60 http://www.thinnertimesforum.com/images/misc/rss.jpg http://www.thinnertimesforum.com/ http://www.thinnertimesforum.com/mens-issues/40154-post-op-wls-sexuality-awareness.html Sat, 31 Oct 2009 18:06:49 GMT I tried searching this topic and didn't find what I was looking for. I was looking for a discusiion surrounding sexuality post WLS.

Hell I am having a great time being smaller than 322 pounds (now 230'a and heading toward 174 goal). I always thought I was just an average looking guy, actually perhaps I have convinced myself not good looking at all! Even though every woman I have ever loved or cared for that cared or loved me has always assured me beside my weight I am a good looking guy, and a great disposition and witty off the wall personality.... well I am now feeling uncomfortable in the developing new me and anticipate it getting a worse before better in that I find I am attracting attention from women that never would have talked to me before. At work, at home, amongst friends. I had one particular woman, a real head turner (HOT) just freshly seperated, flirt with me at a party (I am happily married) and if I didn't know any better made an outright pass at me, I was loss for words. Caught me completely off guard. Not use to this whatsoever..... is it just me .... have I really missed that much in my life being fatboy on the block????!!! I am going to cry! I can sense the difference in how people relate to me these days. I can see how fat people react to their own overweight when brought to the limelight publically. WOW, I am blown away. As I lose I am seeing so much from a different perspective from what I am use to seeing things from. Just never thought increased sexuality as part of the whole picture of benefits of WLS. The wife is happier than shit for it all, and our sexlife is back where we left off a few years ago, it is great. I think she is actually beginning to feel a little insecure though but as I tell her "if it is not for love, it ain't happening baby". Just I am so wow'd by it all of late ............ ]]> Wusang http://www.thinnertimesforum.com/mens-issues/40154-post-op-wls-sexuality-awareness.html http://www.thinnertimesforum.com/mens-issues/39431-any-good-recipes.html Thu, 08 Oct 2009 00:36:28 GMT HI everyone,

I've posted this here because I'm hoping to get a "Man's" point of view and suggestions. Does anyone have any good recipes? I am looking for something that will satisfy my gravings! It is strange because sometimes what I want is something 'hot and spicy' and somethmes sweet and savory. Does anyone have anything? All suggestions will be helpfull, I am 7 weeks past my GBP so I can eat most things except rice, corn and bread.

Maybe we can get the 'Webmaster' to add a place everyone can post good eating recipes. Maybe for each week after GBP, I know it would have helped me.

Let me know and thanks to all.

Michael ]]> mvoorhes http://www.thinnertimesforum.com/mens-issues/39431-any-good-recipes.html