HAMPTON5555

Thanks for the update. Is there a possibility she may want to attend the N.C. Support meeting? If so could you give her the info. She used to live N.C. Does she still?

Rain

bridgetgirl

Christina and Rain: no problem! I try and keep up with folks and make sure they are okay. Yes she still lives in San Marcos I believe, I dont know the NC meeting details. If you could PM me the 411 I would be more than happy to pass that info along to her. She said she wants to get back to support real bad!
Also, let me know if you want me to give her your #'s so she can call ya, and keep her North County peeps close!

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Joyce

Try not to distress, you are not crazy, just emotional. Emotions never make sense, but are valid. You have the right to want a new bra, something pretty to make you feel good and is a basic need. After 2 years, go out and buy a bra! You are not unworthy to want more in life. Maybe you did settle in your choice of a marriage mate. Many of us have done that. We change at various times in life and our needs do as well. Sometimes coming to terms with that reality is the hardest place to get to. It seems like you have done much thinking about your life and that's a good thing.

I agree that therapy could be just the thing you and hubby can use to get through issues most marriages have. Did I settle? Why did I? Do I want to continue in the relationship? Is the relationship able to be saved and revamped into a satisfying one? Most can if both parties are honest and willing the hear the needs of their mates along with reasonable expectations. Communication skills are necessary tools, and therapy can be a great help. Check credentials of therapists and even then if you don't feel comfortable with them pick someone else. Don't settle for less. They can help or hurt if not competent. You deserve to be happy.

We don't and can never hate you. This where you can come and dump your trash as well as encourage others. We cherish each other and accept others as we want to be accepted for who we are and who we may become.


Joyce

sdgrrl

Joyce,
Like many of us when we were new to the board, it's easy to think only current stuff is available to see. If you'll look at the dates of these posts, you will see that this posting is 4 1/2 years old. We've all done it, so it's a no biggie, but since I myself did it, I always look at the dates of the post.

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Joyce

Thanks, good looking out. Boo Boos do happen.