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Old 04-19-2006, 06:11 PM   #1 (permalink)
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Exclamation A little laughter and some tears.

I am sure most of you can relate to this it made me cry but I can laugh a little bit about it now. The other morning I had to pee REALLY bad, so as I am running down the hall way I hear clapping. I stop look around.....no one continue to take off towards the bathroom and I hear it again WTF! Who is clapping for me. It was my freaking stomach on my thighs! I was so upset. I guess I never notice it before because I always wear a support panty and belly bra for my expanding tummy.

So I do what any logical girl would do I call my Mom. Tell her through the tears what happend. She tries to be comforting telling me this too shall pass, and that it all will be taken care of when the time comes for a tummy tuck.. Then it hits me what the hell is going to happen when I have the baby? Is my panni going to give me a standing ovation?????? Well that was it she lost it I had to hang up I was crying and laughing so hard. Talk about an emotional mess. I would not dare tell my husband some things a girl has to keep to herself.
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Old 04-19-2006, 06:20 PM   #2 (permalink)
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omg. I'm laughing so hard, I'm crying. What are friends for, huh? You can slap me when you see me. Hormones are fun eh? lol LOVE YOU HON!!
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Old 04-19-2006, 06:42 PM   #3 (permalink)
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Oh sweetie - I am so sorry to laugh at your story, but I can relate...and I have never been preggers!!! That is why running is so evil Mom is right that this too shall pass. Hang in there...and know that we laugh and cry with you!!!
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Thanks Duckie I am going to hold you to that!


Whitney , what can I say except Duckie better NOT make me run after her lol
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Old 04-20-2006, 08:00 PM   #5 (permalink)
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Hey my lil chick a dee... my arms clap... HATE it! If my shirt is too big at the shoulders I can hear them. There are other sounds too status post thigh lift, but I wont go into that!

My paani use to slap my thighs too! Welcome to the club,lol! Hell it use to sslap it when I was fat too! Thats why I quit playing softball, I could hear it as I would run the bases.... all the while peeing on myself... such a mess! lol

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Thanks Duckie I am going to hold you to that!


Whitney , what can I say except Duckie better NOT make me run after her lol
Well, if I make you run I get to hear it too! JK Just don't hit me TOO hard, k? lol xoxoxo
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Laura I am sure you are not the only one who gives them self a standing ovation. I remember when me and the hubby first started dating and he came to pick me up and he had one of those 240sx, one of those 2 door sporty kind of cars. Well I climb in and I hear this clap(that clap would be my big thighs) thank God he didn't hear it because I was blushing. What is worse a man thinking it was your fat clapping or me passing gas? I don't know I am kinda leaning toward the gas.
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OMG!!! What a hoot! I especially identified with Bridget's memories. It was a huge factor in my decision to have a TT.

Before my TT my butt was really flat and square and my gut was bigger, so it felt more normal to wear my pants backwards--which I did by accident....twice...

Everytime someone writes about their panni I keep thinking of those Italian grilled sandwiches slapping together.....
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umm, whats a panni??????
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My paani use to slap my thighs too! Welcome to the club,lol! Hell it use to sslap it when I was fat too! Thats why I quit playing softball, I could hear it as I would run the bases.... all the while peeing on myself... such a mess! lol

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