Ever Feel like you just dont fit in? - ThinnerTimes

Pokey757 · 01-25-2006, 01:00 PM

I am a lil depressed i guess today. I just hate feeling like i dont fit in anywhere. I belong to a couple of forums/groups, and no matter where i go i just feel like i am intruding. Or like i will never be part of "the click" damn it's like high school all over again. But you must admit no matter where you go, or where you are there is always a "Click" and i just feel like i will never be "In"
I will post and not get responses, or never get invited anywhere. etc, etc, etc.......I know poor me.

Sorry to vent!

VanessaSFL · 01-25-2006, 01:09 PM

Hey Danette~

I go to a support group here in Naples and I have nothing in common with anyone,except we had the same surgon.
They are all real close,which is great.I know how you feel.

Hang in there~

Van

VanessaSFL · 01-25-2006, 01:14 PM

I read almost all the posts on here.As you see from my # of postings I don't post that much.

If I can't help the person or add any new insights I don't post.

Posting like mad now~

Van

Bypassingme619 · 01-25-2006, 01:25 PM

Danette are you going to any support groups or talking to anybody about how you are feeling? I know what you mean about the clicks but I have always been the type of person who just likes to hang out by her self. I function better by myself sometimes. I don't like doing the click thing. I think you being a little depressed could be making you feel like this. Do you have anyone supporting you? Sweety you know I always post when you post something. Sweety if you ever want to chat or talk you are more then welcome to email me. Smile.

coptergirl · 01-25-2006, 01:32 PM

Hang in there Danette - we love you

Dave T in SD · 01-25-2006, 01:56 PM

Hi Danette,

Can I join your click?

I don't fit in anywhere either...
But, I've found some great people amongst the Thinner Times posters!!

No one has been nicer and great advice to boot!

Welcome home!

Dave

Still waiting for insurance approval

Jeanie · 01-25-2006, 02:10 PM

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Originally Posted by Pokey757

I am a lil depressed i guess today. I just hate feeling like i dont fit in anywhere. I belong to a couple of forums/groups, and no matter where i go i just feel like i am intruding. Or like i will never be part of "the click" damn it's like high school all over again. But you must admit no matter where you go, or where you are there is always a "Click" and i just feel like i will never be "In"
I will post and not get responses, or never get invited anywhere. etc, etc, etc.......I know poor me.

Sorry to vent!

You're more than welcome to come out with us anytime. The only problem is it's going to be a long drive for you!

I feel left out sometimes also. I think it's just something that we go through. I'm sure you will feel better soon! There is nothing but LOVE for everyone on this forum, by everyone on this forum!

Realtor Linda · 01-25-2006, 02:24 PM

I agree with Dave and Jeanie. This is a great place to be.

ps.....Jeanie...have you met BigggDave yet...he is new to us! Gonna attend support group too! (ok....I'll bud out)

Pokey757 · 01-25-2006, 03:09 PM

Dont get me wrong, I couldnt dig you guys n gals here more than i do. But i am all the way in Colorado

So i cant hang with ya.
The groups they have here in Colorado are so clickish. I just started going to my support groups, and i did meet some new people, i just can tell when there is a click, and more times than not, i dont fit in, or they wont let me. I have to be very careful of the friends i make. I just made a new one, and found out she was a "swinger" and her preference is Black men. Well the preference does not bother me, or should i say would not bother me, if my husband were not black. It just made me feel really insecure, like she might be after my man. Ya know? You gotta be careful these days! And there is NO way in Hell i am swinging. Not that i think she is a bad person, but i just dont want to get myself into any sticky situations. And the other ladies i met just dont let me in their click. It's not like i am trying to win a popularity contest or anything, i just want a few friends, i can trust, hang with, shop with. I dont like hanging by myself, never have. I enjoy company.
I'm sooooooooo lonely!!
Dave, yes, you can join my click!!

Denise, Yes I am talking to someone, You peeps!

Van, I am glad someone knows how i feel!

I am grateful to have found this forum, even tho we are so far apart you always know how to cheer me up.